Respite care

A break for the person who does the caring

A vetted carer steps in for an afternoon, a weekend or a fortnight so you can rest, work, or get away, while the person you care for stays in their own home with their own routine. You choose the carer and meet them first.

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3,500+ vetted carers across the UK

Not sure what kind of cover you need? Plan the break in two taps or call 0203 369 3624

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Plan the break

How long you need, and what they need while you are away

Respite is not one single thing. An afternoon off and a fortnight in Spain need different cover. Answer the two questions below to see which kind fits, and what it costs.

How long do you need?

1How long do you need?

What does the person need while you are away?

2What do they need while you are away?

Estimates at typical rates, with our fee included. The exact price is on each carer’s profile.

Our suggestion

Pick a length and a level of need

We will say whether that break is best covered by visits, nights or a live-in carer, and roughly what it would cost.

  • How long
  • What they need

Is it time?

Six signs the carer needs caring for

Family carers are the last to notice they are running on empty. If two of these are true, book the break before you feel you deserve it.

01You have not had a full night in weeksListening for them all night is caring too. It is also how family carers end up as patients themselves.
02You snapped, and felt terrible about itIrritability is exhaustion with a different name. It is the most common reason people finally ring us.
03Your own appointments keep slippingThe dentist, the eye test, the check-up you have cancelled twice. Family carers are usually the last to look after their own health.
04You cannot remember the last time you went outA meal with friends, a walk without your phone in your hand, or a weekend away. These are not luxuries. They are what keeps you able to carry on.
05You are doing it all yourselfPerhaps there are siblings who cannot get away, or a partner who does not see it. Respite is a way of sharing the load with someone who is paid to carry it.
06Someone told you to take a breakIt might be the GP, a friend, or the person you care for. They usually see it before you do.

While you are away

What happens when you are not there

The thing that stops most carers taking a break is not the money. It is the picture of the person they love sitting with a stranger. Here is how it goes.

1

Same routine, same house

The carer follows the day you have written down: the mug they like, the pills at eight, the programme at six. Nothing has to change because you are not there.

2

You choose the carer, and meet them first

A call or a visit before you go, so the person you care for has met the face that will be in the kitchen on Monday.

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A proper handover on the first day

Show the carer round: where things are, what the signs of a bad day look like, and who to ring. That first hour together makes all the difference.

4

As much contact as you want, or none at all

Some people want a text each evening, and others want silence for a week. Tell the carer which you would prefer, and they will follow it.

5

If anything changes, we are here

If there is a fall, a fever, or a carer who is unwell, you can call us and we will help you sort out cover. You are not the only backup.

What it costs

Priced by the hour, the night or the week, with nothing extra for being short-term.

Respite is the same carers at the same rates as ongoing care, with our fee included. There is no minimum block and no premium for a one-off.

  • Carers set their own rates; the exact price is on each profile
  • Pay after the care happens, never in advance
  • Councils often fund respite after a carer’s assessment
  • Insurance, contract and DBS monitoring included

How it works

From “something has to change” to a carer at the door

No assessment visits, no waiting list. Some families are talking to a carer the same day.

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Search your postcode

See the carers who cover it, with photos, rates, experience and reviews. Filter by hourly, live-in or overnight.

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Talk to the ones you like

Message them directly, or tell us what you need and we can suggest some carers to look at. The choice is always yours.

3

Meet before deciding

A call, a video chat or a visit, free and with no commitment. A lot of families have a good idea within the first ten minutes.

4

Book, and change it as needs change

Contract, insurance and payment run through us. You can add visits, add nights, or move to live-in care as things change, and you only pay for care that happens.

Safety first

Someone coming into their home? We take that seriously.

Letting a carer into the home of someone you love takes trust. We've built every layer of protection so that trust is earned, not assumed.

See exactly how we vet carers or call 0203 369 3624

Vetting that never stops

Enhanced DBS, ID and right-to-work checks and an online interview before a carer appears, then continuous DBS monitoring for as long as they work. We check that a carer is caring; their skills and training are for you to check with them.

Insured and above board

Every visit is insured, contracted and paid securely online after care happens. There is no cash and no informal arrangement to manage.

A real person who knows you

Your own account manager and a UK support team who know you, your carer and your situation, not a call centre script.

Help when plans change

If your carer is unwell or away, our team will always do their best to find you vetted cover at short notice.

What clients say

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Questions families ask

Respite care, answered

Respite care is short-term care that covers for the person who usually does it, whether that is a family member, a partner, or a regular carer who is on holiday. It can be a few hours, a weekend or a couple of weeks, at home with a visiting or live-in carer, or in a care home. What is respite care, in full.

Respite costs the same as ongoing care. Visits are £18 to £25 an hour, nights £130 to £160, and a live-in carer from £1,050 a week, typically £1,120, with our fee included. There is no premium for a one-off. The cost of care.

Sometimes you can. Ask the council for a carer’s assessment; many fund a set number of respite days or hours a year. Attendance Allowance for the person you care for is not means-tested and can pay for it. Some charities fund breaks for carers. Help paying for care.

It can be as short as an afternoon, or as long as you need. Live-in carers usually work in blocks of a week or more; visiting carers can do a single visit. Hiring a live-in carer temporarily.

Usually, if they have met them first and the routine does not change. You choose the carer, interview them for free, and can arrange a short visit before the break so the face is familiar. Start with an afternoon if you are unsure. What happens while you are away.

No. Respite is a break for the carer; end-of-life care is support for someone who is seriously ill, with comfort as the aim. They can overlap, because family carers in that situation need breaks most of all. Is respite care end-of-life care?

At home, the person keeps their routine, their bed and their things, and one carer is there for them alone. A care home respite bed costs about £1,160 a week and involves a move, which can unsettle someone with dementia for weeks after. Care at home vs a care home.

Some families are talking to a carer the same day. For a specific week away, a fortnight’s notice gives the widest choice. Search to see who is free, or call 0203 369 3624 and we will look for you.

Ideally before you are exhausted, rather than after. If you have not had a full night in weeks, your own appointments keep slipping, or someone has told you to take a break, it is time. When to consider respite care.

If a carer is unwell, if there is a fall, or if anything changes, call us and we will help you sort it out. Every carer has had identity, right to work and enhanced DBS checks and an online interview, they are insured while they work, and you are never the only backup.

Book the break before you need it

See the carers near you who take short-term bookings, and talk to the ones you like for free.

From an afternoon to a fortnightYou choose and meet the carerVetted and insuredNo premium for one-offs