Live-in careFinding a carer

How can I find a live-in carer?

There are three routes: a fully managed care agency, an introductory service such as PrimeCarers, or finding a carer directly through a website or a classified ad. They differ mainly in who checks the carer before you meet them, who you choose from, and how much of the arrangement is handled for you. This page sets out what each one costs and what you take on.

By James Bowdler, founder of PrimeCarers  ·  Updated September 2026  ·  9 min read · Compare the three routes

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Part of our guide to live-in care.

Three ways to find one

The three ways families find a live-in carer

Every route to a live-in carer is one of these three, or a mix of them. The main difference between them is who does the work of checking the carer, who you get to choose from, and who manages the arrangement once the carer is in the house.

An introductory service, such as PrimeCarers

£1,050 to £1,400+ a week

the carer's own rate with the introduction fee included

Who checks the carer
ID checked, right to work checked and an enhanced DBS check on the Update Service, plus an online interview, before the carer appears in a search.
Who you choose from
You. You search profiles by postcode, read reviews and message the carers you like yourself.
Who manages pay and notice
You and the carer, who is self-employed, agree pay, hours and notice between you and put it in writing.

Fits a family who wants to choose their own carer and pay close to the carer's own rate, and who is comfortable agreeing terms directly.

A fully managed care agency

£1,120 to £1,750 a week

the agency's charge, with care and management included

Who checks the carer
Vetted and managed by the agency itself, as part of a service registered with the Care Quality Commission.
Who you choose from
The agency. It matches a carer to your relative and can usually send someone else if the first carer is unwell or leaves.
Who manages pay and notice
The agency. It employs or contracts the carer, runs the rota, and handles payroll and cover.

Fits a family who wants the whole arrangement handled for them, including a replacement carer at short notice, and can pay the premium for that.

Finding a carer directly

Agreed carer to carer, with no published range

often close to what an introductory-service carer charges, since there is no agency margin either way

Who checks the carer
You, in full. Nobody else checks identity, right to work, a criminal record or references unless you arrange each one yourself.
Who you choose from
You, from whoever answers a classified ad or a profile on a site such as PA Pool or Care.com.
Who manages pay and notice
You and the carer agree everything directly, usually as self-employment, with no service to fall back on if it goes wrong.

Fits someone confident running every check themselves, or who already knows the carer, for example through a personal recommendation.

Mixing routes is common and there is nothing wrong with it. A family might search an introductory service first, and if nobody nearby fits, ask an agency for a quote at the same time. What matters is knowing, before you start, how much of the checking and choosing you are taking on yourself, because that is what changes between the three. How does live-in care work? covers what the day-to-day role looks like once a carer has moved in, whichever route brought them to you.

Fully managed

What a live-in care agency arranges, and what it costs

A live-in care agency is the most hands-off route for the family. The agency recruits, checks and employs or contracts its carers, matches one to your relative, and manages the arrangement for as long as it runs.

Matching and ongoing management

The agency chooses a carer it thinks suits your relative, from carers already on its books, and stays involved for the length of the placement rather than stepping back once the introduction is made.

Registered with the Care Quality Commission

In England, providing personal care in someone's home is a regulated activity, and an agency with an ongoing role in that care has to register with the CQC and can be inspected. That is a legal requirement on the agency, not a choice.

Cover if the carer is unwell or leaves

Most agencies can usually send a different carer at short notice, which matters if your relative cannot safely go a day without support.

A premium for the management, £1,120 to £1,750 a week

You are paying for the recruitment, the management and the cover if a carer is unwell or leaves, as well as the carer's time, which is why an agency costs more than the other two routes for a similar carer.

An agency is worth the premium for a family who wants nothing left to chance, particularly if there is no one at home who could step in for a few hours while a replacement is arranged. The cost of live-in care sets agency and non-agency prices side by side in more detail, and how can I fund live-in care? covers what the NHS, the council and your own money can each cover, whichever route you choose.

Choose your own, vetted first

Using an introductory service such as PrimeCarers

An introductory service checks carers before you ever see their profile, then lets you search, compare and choose yourself, rather than being matched by someone else. PrimeCarers is one; it introduces you to a self-employed carer and takes no ongoing role in the care itself, which is why it is not registered with the CQC in the way an agency is.

  1. 1

    Search live-in carers near you

    Free
    Filter by rate, experience, reviews and availability. Every profile shows what the carer charges, so there is no quote to wait for.
  2. 2

    Every carer is checked before they appear

    Done for you
    PrimeCarers checks identity, right to work, and runs an enhanced DBS check on the Update Service, and every carer has an online interview. Qualifications, training and references are not checked by PrimeCarers, though many carers list references on their own profile.
  3. 3

    Message two or three, and ask what matters to you

    This week
    See what qualities to look for and how to interview a candidate before the call, so you ask the questions that tell you the most.
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    Agree the rate, the fee and the notice period in writing

    Before day one
    The carer sets their own rate. PrimeCarers charges an introduction fee on top, and how that works is set out on the pricing page.

Once you have a carer in mind, how do I hire a live-in carer? walks through writing the job description, the trial visit and the paperwork that turns a good conversation into a start date.

Doing it yourself

Finding a live-in carer directly, and what you take on

The most hands-on route is finding a carer without an agency or an introductory service in between: a classified ad, a site such as PA Pool or Care.com, or a personal recommendation. It can cost less, because there is no agency margin, but every check that PrimeCarers or an agency would run is now yours to arrange.

If you are finding a carer directly

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Before you advertise or reply

Before you say yes to anyone

Hiring a carer to work directly for you and your relative, with no agency managing or directing the care, does not itself require you to register with the Care Quality Commission; that exemption is what makes this route possible for an ordinary family in the first place. It is also worth knowing that some of the same carers you might reach through a classified ad look for live-in work through carer-facing sites as well, so the pool of people is not entirely separate from the other two routes, only the checking is.

How to start

From this page to a carer in your home

Whichever route fits, the shape of the next few weeks is similar.

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    Decide how much you want to arrange yourself

    Today
    Use the comparison above. An agency if you want it handled for you, an introductory service if you want to choose and pay less, or a direct hire if you are confident running the checks yourself.
  2. 2

    Search or ask for quotes

    Free
    Search live-in carers by postcode on PrimeCarers, or call two or three agencies for a quote, so you can compare a real price against the ranges above rather than an estimate.
  3. 3

    Talk to two or three carers or agencies

    This week
    Ask about the things that matter to your relative specifically, not just the general job description.
  4. 4

    Agree the rate, the fee and the notice period in writing

    Before day one
    Live-in care on PrimeCarers can be ended on 48 hours' notice at first, moving to 7 days' notice once a carer has worked 168 hours with your relative. Whatever route you choose, know the notice period before the first day, not after.

If cost is the main question left, the cost of live-in care and how can I fund live-in care? both go into more detail, is live-in care cheaper than a care home? sets the two side by side if that is the comparison you are weighing, and a council care needs assessment is free to ask for if you are not sure your relative's savings and needs mean they could get help paying towards it.

Questions

Questions families ask about finding a live-in carer

Finding a carer directly or through an introductory service such as PrimeCarers usually costs less than a fully managed agency, because there is no agency margin on top of the carer's own rate. On PrimeCarers that is £1,050 to £1,400+ a week with the introduction fee included, against £1,120 to £1,750 a week for a fully managed agency. The cost of live-in care compares all three routes in full.

Both check the carer before you meet them, just in different ways. An agency vets and manages its carers itself, as a service registered with the Care Quality Commission. PrimeCarers checks identity, right to work and runs an enhanced DBS check on the Update Service before a carer appears in a search, and every carer has an online interview, but PrimeCarers is not registered with the CQC because it does not manage or direct the care itself. How PrimeCarers vets every carer sets out exactly what is and is not checked.

No. Personal care is exempt from CQC registration where you, or a related third party such as an attorney or deputy acting for you, arrange it yourself and the carer works directly under your control, with no agency or business managing or directing the care. That exemption is what makes hiring a carer directly possible for an ordinary family without registering as a care provider.

At minimum: a basic DBS certificate showing unspent convictions, proof of the right to work in the UK, and a phone call to at least one reference rather than only reading a written one on paper. None of this happens automatically when there is no agency or introductory service between you and the carer, so it falls to you to arrange it. PrimeCarers and most agencies run a fuller check instead, including an enhanced DBS check on the Update Service; Enhanced DBS and the Update Service explains what that covers.

Yes. Searching an introductory service while also asking an agency for a quote is common, and there is no reason not to compare a real carer or a real quote from more than one route before deciding.

Look at a live-in companion rather than a live-in carer. The role and the search are different: a companion focuses on company, conversation and light help around the house rather than washing, dressing or medication. Live-in companion: what they do and where to find them covers it.

It depends on the route. An agency will usually offer a replacement as part of its service. On an introductory service or a direct hire, you search again yourself, which is part of the trade-off for the lower cost. PrimeCarers does not charge anything to search again or to end an arrangement; the contract between you and the carer sets out the notice period involved.

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