Personal careWhat it is

Is personal care the right kind of care for your parent?

Personal care means help with the physical, everyday things somebody can no longer manage safely alone: washing, dressing, using the toilet, moving around the house and eating. This sets out what it covers, who provides it, what it costs, and how to tell whether it is the kind of care your parent or partner needs right now.

By James Bowdler, founder of PrimeCarers  ·  Updated September 2026  ·  11 min read · See the tasks involved

A watercolour of a full bath with bubbles and a rubber duck on the tiled floor beside it, in a sunlit bathroom

Part of our guide to personal care.

What personal care means

What counts as personal care, and what doesn't

Personal care is a specific term, not a general word for looking after somebody. It sits between two other kinds of help, and knowing where the lines fall makes it easier to ask for the right thing.

The Care Quality Commission, which regulates care services in England, defines personal care as help with the physical parts of daily life that somebody cannot manage alone because of old age, illness or disability. In practice that means washing, dressing, using the toilet, moving around safely and eating, done for or with a person rather than instead of them wherever they can still take part.

Company and domestic help

  • Cleaning and laundry
  • Shopping and errands
  • Cooking a meal
  • Conversation and company

A companionship carer or domestic help. No physical, hands-on care involved.

Personal care

  • Washing, bathing and grooming
  • Dressing and undressing
  • Toileting and continence care
  • Mobility and transfers
  • Eating, drinking and medication support

A personal carer, checked before they appear in search and experienced in doing this with dignity and privacy.

Nursing and clinical care

  • Wound dressings and injections
  • Catheter and stoma care
  • Monitoring a complex health condition

A district nurse or other clinical professional, not a personal carer.

The three groups blur a little at the edges, and that is normal. A carer booked for personal care will usually also do some light tasks around a visit, such as making the bed or a cup of tea, but cleaning the whole house or doing the weekly shop on its own is domestic help rather than personal care, closer to what companionship care covers, where the line between light housekeeping and cleaning is drawn in the same way. At the other edge, anything clinical, a wound dressing, an injection, or monitoring a health condition that needs specific training, sits with the district nursing team or another clinical professional rather than a personal carer. If your parent's needs are closer to that end, complex care sets out what to look for instead.

The tasks involved

The everyday tasks a personal carer helps with

Six areas make up most personal care visits. A carer plans a visit around whichever of these your parent needs, rather than doing all of them every time.

Washing, bathing and grooming

Getting in and out of the bath or shower safely, and the everyday grooming that goes with it: teeth, hair, shaving and skin care, always with the door closed and a towel ready first.

Dressing and undressing

Help choosing and putting on clothes that are comfortable and practical, offering choices where your parent can still make them rather than picking for them.

Toileting and continence care

Support using the toilet or commode, and changing or fitting continence products where these are needed, carried out with as much privacy and dignity as the task allows.

Mobility and transfers

Help getting in and out of bed or a chair, moving safely around the house, and outdoor walks, using whatever equipment or technique has been agreed.

Eating and drinking

Preparing a meal and helping your parent eat and drink it, including at a pace that suits them if swallowing or grip has become difficult.

Medication support

Anything from a reminder that it is time for their tablets through to physically helping them take medication, set out in the care plan rather than assumed on the day.

Which of these a carer does, and how much of it your parent still manages themselves, is worth agreeing before the first visit and writing down somewhere the carer can refer back to, along with whether they would rather a woman or a man did the intimate parts. What does a day of personal care look like? walks through how these tasks usually fit into a morning call, a lunch visit and an evening call.

Who does it

Who provides personal care, and how carers are checked

Personal care can come from a family member, a self-employed carer found through an introductory service such as PrimeCarers, or an agency that employs carers directly. Each works differently, and it changes who is responsible for what.

PrimeCarers is an introductory service. It helps you find and check a self-employed carer, rather than employing carers itself or managing the care they go on to provide, and it is not registered with the Care Quality Commission. Before a carer appears in a search, this is confirmed.

Checked before a carer appears in search

  • The carer's identity, confirmed against official documents
  • The right to work in the UK
  • An enhanced DBS check, kept current on the Update Service
  • An online interview with every carer

Not checked by PrimeCarers

  • Qualifications or training courses a carer has completed
  • References, which sit on a carer's own profile rather than being checked by PrimeCarers
  • A carer's driving licence or car insurance, worth asking about directly if lifts are part of the job

A carer's experience, training and references are things to ask about directly and to look for on their own profile, rather than something PrimeCarers verifies on your behalf. How we vet every carer sets out the checks above in full.

What it costs

What personal care costs, by the hour and by the week

Personal care is usually booked and charged by the visit rather than as a fixed weekly package, so the cost depends on how many visits your parent needs.

£18–£25

an hour on PrimeCarers, with our fee included

£28–£35

an hour through a traditional agency for the same visit

£126–£175

a week for one hour-long visit every day

£1,050+

a week for live-in care, worth comparing once visits pass about 35 hours a week

One morning visit a day, seven days a week, comes to about £126 to £175 a week on PrimeCarers. How many visits a week does my parent need? turns the tasks above into a number of visits and a weekly figure. If your parent has less than £23,250 in savings, council funding may cover some or all of it, and it is free to ask for a care needs assessment before ruling it out.

Is it right for you

Deciding whether personal care is the right fit

Personal care is the right starting point when the difficulty is physical: getting up, washed, dressed, to the toilet or fed safely. When something else is driving the need for help, a different page will serve your parent better.

Confusion, memory loss or a dementia diagnosis is part of the picture

Where to look next
Dementia care

The need comes from a physical disability rather than ageing

Company and conversation matter more than physical help right now

Where to look next
Companionship care

Nights need covering as well as the day

Where to look next
Overnight care

You are not yet sure whether the signs add up to a need for care

Getting up, washed, dressed, to the toilet or fed is what is becoming hard

Where to look next
Personal care, covered on this page, is the right starting point.

These are not fixed categories, and needs often combine more than one of them. Talking to your loved ones about hiring a personal carer has advice on raising the idea for the first time, once you have decided personal care is likely to help.

Getting started

How to turn this into the first visit

Four steps, and the first two do not cost anything.

  1. 1

    Work out which tasks your parent needs help with

    Today
    Use the list above to note which of the six areas apply now, and roughly how often. The needs-to-hours guide turns that into a number of visits and a weekly cost.
  2. 2

    Search personal carers near you

    Free
    Every profile shows a carer's rate, experience and availability, and every carer has been through the checks set out above before they appear.
  3. 3

    Talk to two or three carers

    This week
    Describe the tasks and ask how they would approach the ones you are most concerned about, such as washing or medication.
  4. 4

    Book the first visit, then adjust

    Week one
    Start with the visit you are most sure of and add others once the carer has seen how it goes. Visits can be changed at any time; there is no fixed package to renegotiate.

Questions

Questions families ask about personal care

Home care is the broader term for any care given in somebody's own home. Personal care is one part of it, specifically the physical, hands-on tasks: washing, dressing, toileting, mobility and eating. The same visit often includes some light domestic help too, such as making a bed or a hot drink, but a visit built entirely around cleaning or company is domestic help or companionship care rather than personal care.

Personal care covers the physical tasks of daily living. Anything clinical, such as a wound dressing, an injection, or monitoring a complex health condition, is nursing care and sits with a district nurse or another clinical professional rather than a personal carer. Complex care covers what to look for when needs go beyond personal care.

It can, and it ranges from a simple reminder through to physically helping your parent take their tablets. Which one applies should be agreed and written into the care plan before the first visit rather than assumed on the day. A day in the life of a personal carer covers how this usually works in practice.

Carers on PrimeCarers charge £18 to £25 an hour with our fee included, against £28 to £35 an hour through a traditional agency for the same visit. One visit a day, seven days a week, comes to about £126 to £175 a week. Past about 35 hours a week, live-in care is worth comparing.

No. You can arrange a personal carer privately at any point, without an assessment first. A council care needs assessment is free and worth asking for regardless, since it can open the door to funding as well as giving an independent view of what your parent needs. How to ask for one.

Every carer has their identity and right to work confirmed, an enhanced DBS check kept current on the Update Service, and an online interview before they appear in a search. Qualifications, training and references are not checked by PrimeCarers; carers list these on their own profile. How we vet every carer has the full list.

That reaction is common, especially at first, and it usually eases as your parent gets used to the carer. A carer experienced in personal care will knock, explain what they are about to do before doing it, and cover what does not need to be uncovered. You can also ask for a carer of a particular gender if that would help. Adjusting to having a personal carer has more on settling in during the first few weeks.

If you need help at home

Start with our guide to personal care

Washing, dressing and continence support. What it costs, what a carer does day to day, and how to hire one directly.

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