Hospital discharge and post-operative careBefore discharge

What to do when someone is leaving hospital

A hospital stay after a fall or an operation can end quickly, sometimes with only a day or two's notice that your relative is coming home. This page sets out what to arrange before that day, what free support is available for the first six weeks, what hospital staff should check before your relative leaves the ward, and what to do if you think the plan is wrong.

By James Bowdler, founder of PrimeCarers  ·  Updated September 2026  ·  11 min read · See what free support is available

Part of our guide to hospital discharge and post-operative care.

The discharge journey

Who does what, from admission to the first weeks home

A hospital discharge is not one event but a short process, and each stage has things the hospital should be doing and things that are easier if you do them too. Knowing the shape of it means fewer surprises on the day.

  1. Soon after admission

    Discharge planning starts, not on the last day but near the first

    The hospital

    The ward should start thinking about discharge early in the stay, and should ask whether you are, or will be, an unpaid carer for your relative once they go home.

    You

    Tell the ward you are involved and want to be part of the planning. Say straight away if home is not ready, for example if there are stairs, or nobody there overnight.

  2. Before a discharge date is set

    Needs are assessed and a discharge pathway is chosen

    The hospital

    A discharge assessment team works out what your relative will need once they leave, and which of the standard discharge pathways fits: straight home with no support, home with reablement, a short stay in a care setting to recover further, or ongoing NHS-funded care.

    You

    Ask what has been arranged and when it starts. Ask about a carer's assessment for yourself if the caring is going to fall mainly on you.

  3. On the day itself

    The checks before the car leaves the car park

    The hospital

    Medication and instructions should be explained, any new equipment shown to you, the GP told, and a follow-up appointment booked before your relative leaves the ward.

    You

    Go through the checklist below before you leave, and ask again about anything that has not been covered. It is easier to ask on the ward than to chase it up by phone the next day.

  4. The weeks that follow

    Free support at home, then a review

    The hospital

    Intermediate care or reablement support, where it is offered, is free for up to six weeks in England. A review before that period ends decides what happens next.

    You

    Use the visits to notice how your relative is managing day to day, and go into the review knowing what you think they still need.

  5. If something is not right

    Raising it while it can still be fixed

    The hospital

    The ward, and then the hospital's PALS team, should respond to a concern raised before discharge, including a concern that a discharge is happening too soon.

    You

    Say so to the ward first. If that does not resolve it, PALS and a formal complaint are both free and open to you.

Under the Health and Care Act 2022, NHS hospital trusts in England have a duty to involve unpaid carers, meaning you, as early as possible when a patient's discharge is being planned. If a ward has not asked whether you are involved in your relative's care, say so rather than waiting to be asked. The hospital discharge and post-operative care pillar page has the wider picture of the weeks either side of this one.

Arranging care for their return

What free support is available before you pay for anything yourselves

Before your relative is discharged, ask what has been arranged for when they get home. Most areas offer some free support for the first weeks, and it is worth knowing what it is called and what it covers before you assume you have to pay privately from day one.

Intermediate care or reablement

Short-term help at home from a care worker, a district nurse or an occupational therapist, arranged jointly by the NHS and the council. It is free for up to six weeks in England, whatever your relative has in savings, and the name varies by area: intermediate care, reablement and discharge to assess all describe versions of the same thing.

Equipment and home adaptations

A raised toilet seat, a commode, a frame, grab rails, a hospital bed for downstairs use or a personal alarm worn as a pendant can usually be ordered by the hospital occupational therapist before discharge. Ask what has been ordered and when it will arrive, because a delay in equipment is one of the more common reasons a discharge is held up.

A carer's assessment for you

If you are going to be doing a lot of this, you can ask the council for your own carer's assessment, separate from your relative's. It looks at what support you need to keep caring without it wearing you down, and it is free regardless of your income.

A carer you arrange privately

For visits beyond what reablement covers, or once the free period ends, carers on PrimeCarers charge £18 to £25 an hour with our fee included. Sleeping nights start from £130 and live-in care from £1050 a week, both useful if the first nights home are the main worry.

One claim worth correcting here: NHS Continuing Healthcare is sometimes described as something your relative must apply for before they will be "allowed home" if they live alone. That is not right. Continuing Healthcare is a specific, health-led funding route for people whose care needs are mainly about their health rather than daily living, and it is not a requirement for going home. What decides whether a discharge home is safe is the hospital's own assessment of what support will be in place, whether that is family, reablement or a carer you arrange. If your relative's needs do turn out to be mainly health-based, for example following a stroke or with a complex condition, NHS Continuing Healthcare explained sets out the test and how to ask for the screening checklist. For the fuller picture of the free six weeks, the review that follows it, and the three routes that can come after, funding care after a hospital stay covers that in depth. If your relative has savings below £23,250 once the free period ends, local authority funding for care at home explains how the council's means test works and how to ask for it.

If they need more time first

When staff say home is not the next step yet

Sometimes a hospital team decides your relative is not quite ready to go straight home, even with support arranged. That is not a setback, and it does not mean independence is over; it usually means a short spell somewhere else first.

This can take a few different forms. A short stay in a community hospital or a rehabilitation unit gives more time for physiotherapy and nursing input than a few visits a week at home could provide. A temporary bed in a care home works the same way for some people, particularly after a bad fall or a long stay in a hospital bed, and it is meant to be a step towards home rather than a permanent move. Either way, the same free period usually applies as it would at home, and the aim is the same: to get your relative back to managing as independently as they can.

Ask the discharge team directly why more time is being suggested, what it is expected to achieve, and roughly how long it is likely to last. If your relative or you are not comfortable with the suggestion, you do not have to accept it without discussion; the section below on disagreeing with the plan covers what to do next. Post-operative rehabilitation and convalescent care covers what a longer recovery, wherever it happens, tends to involve.

Questions to ask

What to raise before the discharge date is fixed

Discharge conversations move fast, often in a corridor or over a phone call, and it is easy to leave without having asked the thing that was worrying you most. Writing questions down before a ward round or a phone call means less gets missed.

Worth raising before the day is fixed

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Care and treatment at home

The practical details

Who is involved

Before you leave the ward

What a safe discharge should include

Before your relative leaves, a short set of checks should have happened. None of them are unreasonable to ask about directly if nobody has mentioned them.

What should be in place

  • Medication supplied, with clear instructions on what is new, what has stopped, and when each dose is due
  • Any new equipment, such as a frame, crutches or a commode, explained and shown to whoever will be helping at home
  • The GP practice told that your relative has been discharged
  • A follow-up appointment, or a date for a district nurse visit, already booked rather than left to arrange later
  • Your relative properly dressed for the journey home, not left in a hospital gown
  • Enough food and fluids taken before they travel, particularly if the journey home could take a while
  • Any incontinence needs addressed, with supplies provided or arranged before they leave
  • Transport home arranged, whether that is hospital transport or a lift, and confirmed in good time

What to flag if it is missing

  • Being sent home with no explanation of a medication change from before the admission
  • Equipment mentioned on the ward but never provided or fitted
  • No follow-up date, so a wound check or review is left to chance
  • Sent home still in a hospital gown, or without a coat or shoes for the weather
  • No food or drink offered before a journey home that turns out to be a long one
  • Incontinence needs not mentioned or planned for before departure
  • Nobody able to tell you who to contact if something goes wrong in the first few days
  • A discharge time that keeps slipping with no update, leaving transport or family plans in the air

If you disagree with the plan

What to do if you think a discharge is happening too soon, or was handled badly

Most discharges go smoothly, but if you think your relative is being sent home before it is safe, or that an assessment was not done properly, you are entitled to say so and to expect an answer.

Raise it with the ward first, as early as you can, because a discharge that has not yet happened is far easier to pause than one to unpick afterwards. If that conversation does not resolve it, every hospital has a Patient Advice and Liaison Service, known as PALS, which is free and can raise a concern quickly on your behalf while your relative is still on the ward. You can find your hospital's PALS service through the NHS website.

If PALS does not settle it, or the issue is more serious, you can make a formal complaint. The NHS's guidance on how to complain sets out how, and free, independent NHS complaints advocacy is available in every area to help you put a complaint together; your local council or Healthwatch can tell you who provides it locally. None of this needs to be adversarial. Hospitals discharge a huge number of patients every day, and a clear, early question is usually enough to fix a plan that has missed something, rather than a complaint after the event. For wider advice and a printable checklist covering the same ground as this page, Carers UK's guide to coming out of hospital is worth reading alongside it.

Questions

Questions families ask about leaving hospital

As soon as your relative is admitted, if the stay is likely to be more than a few days. Discharge planning is meant to start early in the stay rather than on the last day, and hospitals have a duty to involve you as an unpaid carer as soon as it is feasible. Asking the ward early what is being considered gives you time to arrange equipment, a carer or changes to the house before the discharge date is fixed.

Often, for a limited time. Intermediate care or reablement, short-term support at home arranged jointly by the NHS and the council, is free for up to six weeks in England where it is offered, whatever your relative has in savings. It is not automatic in every area or for every situation, so ask the discharge team directly what is being arranged. Funding care after a hospital stay covers what happens once the six weeks end.

No. NHS Continuing Healthcare is a separate, health-led funding route for people whose care needs are mainly about their health, and it is not something a hospital requires before agreeing a discharge home. What decides whether home is safe is the hospital's own discharge assessment and the support put in place, whether that is family, reablement or a carer you arrange. NHS Continuing Healthcare explained sets out who it applies to.

You can be involved and can ask questions on their behalf, but decisions should still involve your relative as far as they are able to take part, and be made in their best interests if they cannot take part at all. This is set out in the Mental Capacity Act.

It usually means a short stay in a community hospital, a rehabilitation unit, or a temporary care home bed, aimed at getting them steady enough to manage at home rather than a permanent move. Ask what it is meant to achieve and roughly how long it should take. If you are not comfortable with the plan, you can say so and ask for it to be discussed further before agreeing.

Medication and instructions explained, any equipment shown to whoever will help at home, the GP told, and a follow-up appointment or district nurse visit already booked. Photograph the discharge letter before you leave, since it lists the medication changes and the follow-up plan that a carer or family member will need afterwards.

Say so to the ward as early as possible, because a discharge that has not happened yet is easier to pause than one to unpick afterwards. If that does not resolve it, every hospital has a free Patient Advice and Liaison Service (PALS) that can raise the concern quickly, and a formal complaint is always an option if the issue is more serious. The NHS's guidance on how to complain sets out the process.

If you need help at home

Start with our guide to hospital discharge and post-operative care

Coming home after hospital. What it costs, what a carer does day to day, and how to hire one directly.

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