Personal assistant/Carer

About this role

Role This is a part-time companion and support role for a creative, highly intelligent, and largely independent woman managing stage 3 endometriosis, autism, ADHD, dyslexia, short-term memory challenges, and sensory processing sensitivities. She is communicative and articulate, though there are times she may be non-verbal — particularly during flare-ups or difficult days. This is not a traditional care role. It is not about ticking boxes or working through a task list without thought. It is about being a reliable, calm presence — a right-hand person who pays attention, takes initiative, and genuinely cares. Think of it as filling the gaps — being present without being overbearing, and holding space without judgement. The role is relaxed in pace but requires someone who is switched on at all times. Living with multiple conditions that are both invisible and fluctuating means that no two days look exactly the same. Some days will be lighter and the client will be largely self-sufficient, requiring little more than companionship and a helping hand with routine tasks. Other days — particularly during endometriosis flare-ups or when fatigue and nerve pain take hold — the level of support required will increase significantly. The right person for this role will be able to read the room, adapt without being asked, and show up consistently regardless of what the day brings. This is a role that asks for real human presence, not just a service. Understanding the Conditions To apply for this role with genuine intention, it helps to have at least a basic understanding of what the client lives with daily. Stage 3 endometriosis is a chronic, progressive condition in which tissue similar to the lining of the uterus grows outside of it, causing severe pain, fatigue, nerve involvement, and a wide range of debilitating symptoms. It is not simply painful periods — it is a full-body condition that can affect mobility, cognition, and emotional wellbeing. Flare-ups can be unpredictable and intense, and recovery from them takes time. Autism, ADHD, and dyslexia are neurodevelopmental conditions that affect how the client processes information, communicates, and experiences the world around her. She is highly intelligent and self-aware, and communicates with directness and clarity. She knows what she needs and is not afraid to say so. This is a strength, not a challenge — and the right carer will recognise it as such. Short-term memory difficulties mean that routines, clear communication, and written notes are not just helpful but essential. Sensory processing sensitivities mean that the environment — sounds, smells, textures, light — can have a significant impact on her comfort and energy levels. A calm, considered, low-stimulation environment is important and must be maintained with care and consistency. There may be times when she is non-verbal.

Who you’d be supporting