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Emergency respite when the family carer cannot carry on

When the person who does the day-to-day caring is admitted to hospital, falls ill, or reaches the point where they cannot keep going, the care they were doing stops that day. This guide covers who to ring first, what your council has to do when needs are urgent, what cover can be in place within a few days, and what it costs.

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By James Bowdler, founder of PrimeCarers  ·  Updated September 2026  ·  11 min read · See the first calls to make

Part of our guide to respite care.

The first calls

Who to ring first, and what to ask them for

Which call comes first depends on what has happened. The aim of all of them is the same: to get somebody official to record that the care has stopped, and to get something in place for tonight.

Situation 1

The family carer has been admitted to hospital

Ring first

The council adult social care team where your relative lives. Out of office hours, ask for the emergency duty team.

Ask for

Urgent needs met now, before any assessment, and tell them your relative is on their own from tonight.

Covers the gap

Family or a neighbour for the first night, then booked visits or a live-in carer for the rest of the week.

Situation 2

The family carer is ill at home and cannot manage this week

Ring first

The GP surgery about the illness itself, and the council adult social care team about the care that has stopped.

Ask for

A carer's assessment for whoever has been doing the caring, and short-term replacement care while they recover.

Covers the gap

Hourly visits booked at the times the family carer normally does the work, usually mornings and evenings.

Situation 3

The family carer has stopped and is not going back

Ring first

The council adult social care team, and say plainly that the care has stopped and nobody is covering it.

Ask for

A review of your relative's needs, and a carer's assessment for the person who has been doing the caring.

Covers the gap

Overnight cover or a live-in carer if your relative cannot be left alone, rather than visits with long gaps.

If anyone is at immediate risk of harm, call 999. If you need medical advice and the surgery is closed, call 111. Adult social care teams in England run an out-of-hours emergency duty team, and the number is on the council website.

Every one of those calls is free, and none of them commits you to anything. Adult social care in England does not close at five, and councils run an out-of-hours emergency duty team; if you are not sure which council covers your relative's address, find your local council on GOV.UK. Where the problem is medical and the surgery is shut, NHS 111 will direct you, and 999 is the right call if anyone is at immediate risk of harm. Carers UK, the charity for unpaid carers, gathers the out-of-hours routes on its page about getting help in an emergency.

You can make all of those calls and still book a carer yourself the same afternoon. A council will not refuse to help because you put private cover in place while you waited. Once the immediate week is settled, respite care covers the planned version of the same thing, and what is respite care? sets out every route to a break and who can help pay for one.

What the council must do

What your council has to do when needs are urgent

Two parts of the Care Act 2014 matter in a week like this. One lets a council act before the paperwork, and the other gives the person who has been doing the caring a right of their own.

Urgent needs can be met before any assessment

A council may meet needs that appear to it to be urgent without having yet carried out a needs assessment or a financial assessment. This is the part to name if you are told the wait for an assessment is several weeks.

Care Act 2014, section 19(3)

A carer's assessment does not depend on money

The duty to carry out a carer's assessment applies whatever the council thinks of the carer's financial resources, or those of the person needing care. It is free, and you can ask for one by phone.

Care Act 2014, section 10

Out of hours, ask for the emergency duty team

Adult social care does not stop when the office closes. If the main line has gone to an answerphone, ask for the emergency duty team by name, or look for it under that heading on the council website.

Evenings, weekends and bank holidays

Say so if your relative is left at risk

Where a council has reasonable cause to suspect that an adult with care needs is at risk of neglect and cannot protect themselves, it must make whatever enquiries it thinks necessary. If nobody is covering the care at all, say that plainly on the call.

Care Act 2014, section 42

What happens after those calls varies by area, so ask when you will hear back rather than waiting to find out. What is a carer's assessment? explains what the assessment looks at, and local authority funding explains the means test behind any money that follows it. If your relative is in hospital now and the discharge is the pressure point, funding care after a hospital stay covers the money, and leaving hospital: what to arrange covers the practical side.

The cover you can get

What can be in place within a few days, and what takes longer

Cover comes in five kinds, and they differ in how quickly they can start as much as in what they cost. The NHS guidance on breaks from caring makes the same point about short stays: a care home place can be difficult to find at short notice.

Hourly visits at home

What it covers
The parts of the day the family carer was doing: getting up and dressed, meals, medication, bedtime
How quickly it can start
Often within a few days, once you have messaged carers and agreed the times
What it costs
£18 to £25 an hour on PrimeCarers with our fee included. Agencies charge £28 to £35

Overnight cover

What it covers
A carer in the house through the night, sleeping or awake, where the nights are the worry
How quickly it can start
A few days, and it sits on top of any daytime visits rather than replacing them
What it costs
From £130 a night for a sleeping night, and from £150 where the carer is up and working

A live-in carer

What it covers
Somebody in the house day and night, which suits a gap of unknown length such as a hospital stay
How quickly it can start
Usually a few days. It needs a spare room and a bed for the carer
What it costs
From £1,050 a week on PrimeCarers. Agencies typically charge from £1,400

A short stay in a care home

What it covers
A room and full care away from home, if the house cannot be made safe for somebody on their own
How quickly it can start
The hardest to arrange quickly. Ring homes directly and ask whether they take short-term bookings
What it costs
Roughly £1,100 to £1,600 a week, and each home sets its own terms

Family, friends and neighbours

What it covers
The first night or two while something longer is being arranged
How quickly it can start
Immediately, if somebody is free
What it costs
Nothing, though it is worth writing down who is doing which day so it does not all land on one person

PrimeCarers figures are what families pay carers, with our fee included. Care home and agency figures are typical charges for comparison, not prices we set.

Which one fits depends on the gaps rather than the total hours. If your relative can manage stretches of the day alone and the worry is meals and medication, hourly care is enough on its own, and what a carer can do in an hour is a check on how much to book. If the nights are the problem, overnight care covers a carer sleeping in the house. If nobody can be there and you do not yet know how long the gap will run, hiring a live-in carer temporarily explains how a short live-in booking works. The NHS guide to carers' breaks and respite care lists the same options with the council-funded route to each.

What it costs

What cover costs, and what you agree to when you book it

These are the figures for booking a carer directly, with our fee included. The terms underneath them matter more than usual in a week like this, because you are booking without knowing how long the cover will be needed.

£18-£25

An hour for visits, on PrimeCarers

Agencies charge £28 to £35 an hour for the same visit.

£130+

A night for a sleeping night

A waking night, where the carer is up and working, starts at about £150.

£1,050+

A week for a live-in carer

Agencies typically charge from £1,400 for the same week.

48 hours

Notice on an hourly booking

Live-in is also 48 hours until the carer has worked 168 hours, and seven days after that point.

PrimeCarers rates and the client and carer contract, September 2026.

Booking a shorter block and extending it is easier than booking a long one and unwinding it. Cancellations and late-running visits covers what happens when a visit has to be called off at short notice, and hourly care costs sets these figures against agency prices. Current rates shows what carers are charging now.

The first week

What to sort out once the cover is booked

None of this is urgent in the way the first phone call was, and all of it is easier at the start of a week than at the end of one.

The first week, once somebody is covering

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If Carer's Allowance is being paid

Getting a stand-in into the house

People who need telling

The two reporting rules above come from the GOV.UK guidance on changes you have to report for Carer's Allowance, and Carer's Allowance explained covers the benefit itself. It is easy to forget in a fortnight like this one, and awkward to unpick later.

A plan for next time

Writing down what a stand-in would need to know

A week like this is far easier for families who had something written down before it started. It takes an evening, and it is the same sheet of paper whoever ends up using it.

  1. 1

    Write the day down as it happens

    One evening
    What time your relative gets up, what they eat, when the tablets are due, what a bad day looks like and what settles it. A stand-in can follow a written day, but they cannot guess one.
  2. 2

    Name two people who could cover the first night

    Ask them now
    Not a rota, just two names and numbers, agreed in advance. Asking somebody in the middle of the worst week is much harder than asking them today.
  3. 3

    Ask your council about a carers emergency card

    Free where it runs
    Some councils and local carer organisations run a card scheme for unpaid carers, with a plan held on file and a number that can be rung on your behalf. What is available varies by area, so ask. Carers Trust, a charity for unpaid carers, can point you to the carer service covering your area.
  4. 4

    Meet a carer before you need one

    Free to do
    Searching, messaging and interviewing carers on PrimeCarers costs nothing. Every carer has had an identity check, a right to work check and an enhanced DBS check on the Update Service, and has interviewed with us online; carers are self-employed and insured while they work. Search carers near you and speak to one or two, so there is a name to ring later.

Carers UK has guidance on writing a contingency plan, and our own care plan guide covers the longer document a paid carer would work from. If the caring stopped because of exhaustion rather than illness, the signs of caregiver burnout and when to consider respite care are worth reading next.

Questions

Questions families ask about emergency respite

Yes. A council in England can meet care needs that appear to it to be urgent before it has carried out a needs assessment or a financial assessment, under section 19(3) of the Care Act 2014. Alongside that, you can book a carer privately without waiting for anyone, which is often the quicker of the two. A short stay in a care home is the hardest kind of cover to find at short notice.

Ring the adult social care team at the council where your mother lives, and if the office is closed ask for the emergency duty team. Tell them the care has stopped and that she is on her own from tonight. Call 999 if she is at immediate risk of harm, and 111 if you need medical advice out of hours. Find your local council on GOV.UK if you are not sure which covers her address.

It may. Urgent needs can be met before any financial assessment, but a financial assessment usually follows, and in England the council can ask your relative to contribute if they have savings above £23,250; below £14,250 savings are disregarded, though income is still counted. Local authority funding explains how the means test works, and what is a carer's assessment? covers the separate assessment for the person doing the caring.

A carer booked directly is often available within a few days rather than weeks. You search by postcode, message the carers whose profiles and rates suit, interview them by phone or video, and agree the dates with the carer yourself. Visits run from £18 to £25 an hour with our fee included, and a live-in carer covering a week starts from about £1,050. How fast it happens depends on who is free near you, so start the search on the same day you make the phone calls.

Not straight away, but there are two points at which you have to tell the Department for Work and Pensions. GOV.UK says you must report it if you or the person you care for will be in hospital, a nursing home or respite care for more than 12 weeks, and if you stop caring for more than 28 days for any other reason. The GOV.UK guidance on changes to report has the detail, and Carer's Allowance explained covers the benefit itself.

Yes. There is no minimum period on PrimeCarers and no extra charge for a one-off booking rather than an ongoing one. The agreement is between you and the carer: either side can end an hourly arrangement on 48 hours' notice, and a visit cancelled by the client is payable in full, with the exception of unplanned hospitalisation, illness, or another reason the carer agrees to. See current rates.

If you need help at home

Start with our guide to respite care

Short-term cover for family carers. What it costs, what a carer does day to day, and how to hire one directly.

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