The short answer
- 30 live-in carers are based within about an hour of East SussexThe best-rated 12 are on this page. 8 have client reviews, 7 at five stars, from 11 reviews between them.
- Every one has passed the same checksEnhanced DBS under continuous monitoring, identity, right to work, and an online interview. Their training and experience are for you to check with them.
- Rating follows kindness, price follows complexityThe best-reviewed carers are rarely the dearest. Reviews are about patience and reliability; higher rates go with nursing backgrounds and complex care.
- Meet two or three before you chooseFree, by video or in person. The right questions in that conversation tell you more than any profile.
Carers on this page are ordered by their average client rating, then reviews, then years of experience, from their profiles in September 2026. Nothing on a card is written by us.
Top-rated carers
The best-rated live-in carers in East Sussex
The live-in carers based nearest East Sussex, best-rated first, with the rate each has set. A carer without reviews is newer to PrimeCarers, not worse; read their profile and talk to them.
5 / 5
average rating of the reviewed carers in East Sussex
11
client reviews between them
16 yrs
average experience of the nearest carers
18
of the nearest 23 will care for a couple
From carers' own profiles and client reviews, September 2026.
30 live-in carers are based within about an hour of East Sussex
Filter by who cares for couples, who drives and what they charge, then message the ones you like. Free, and nothing is booked until you say so.
See live-in carers for East SussexWhat families say
What clients in East Sussex wrote about their carers
Reviews written by clients who booked through PrimeCarers, checked before they appear and never edited. Each links to the carer it is about.
“Una felt safe, secure and loved in her time with Debbie which is a gift that I am eternally grateful for.”
Tisana S., 2024
About Debra S.Live-in carer based in Lewes“Andrea provided professional, quality care and nothing was ever too much trouble.”
Amy W., 2023
About Andrea K.Live-in carer based in Maidstone“She would look after my mum as if she was her mother and she does,so kind and patient with her,we are so lucky to have her she’s worth her weight in gold”
Jane K., 2024
About Maria G.Live-in carer based in WealdenIn their own words
How the carers in East Sussex describe themselves
A profile is written by the carer, and the first few lines tell you a great deal: what they enjoy about the work, who they have cared for, and how they talk about the people they look after.
“When I'm not working, you'll usually find me out on a long walk or with music playing while I bake something for the week ahead.”
Rona C.Based in Eastbourne · 15 years experience · Speaks AfrikaansProfile →“I once sat with a client who was very anxious during a difficult time. I stayed calm and steady, kept my voice gentle, and just stayed close until she settled.”
Halima S.Based in Tonbridge · 10 years experienceProfile →“My background is in healthcare and rehabilitation, and over six years that grounding has shaped how I work: steadily, calmly, and with a clear focus on what each person actually needs.”
Jasminka S.Based in Tonbridge · 6 years experience · Speaks Bosnian and CroatianProfile →“Thirty-two years ago I started caring for people without any formal nurse training behind me.”
Maria G.Based in Wealden · 32 years experienceProfile →“I have always believed that good care is built on trust, and over 20 years of working with clients across Maidstone, I have learned that this trust grows through consistency, clear communication and genuinely listening…”
Andrea K.Based in Maidstone · 20 years experienceProfile →“Live-in care has suited me from the start, because it means becoming part of a household rather than fitting in around a schedule.”
Imre Istvanne B.Based in Tonbridge and Malling · 16 years experienceProfile →8
of the 8 list dementia care on their profile
7
of the 8 have used a hoist
6
languages spoken between them besides English
7
of the 8 will look after a pet
From the profiles of the carers shown on this page.
What good looks like
What separates a good live-in carer from an adequate one
Families who have had both describe the difference the same way. It is rarely about qualifications, and almost always about these six things.
They notice
They keep to your relative’s day, not theirs
They talk to the family
They are careful with the boring things
They know what they do not know
They can live in someone else’s house
Worth weight when you compare
- Reviews that describe specific things the carer did, rather than general praise.
- Years of live-in experience, as opposed to hourly visits: the rhythm is different.
- Experience with your relative’s condition, said in their own words at interview.
- A car, if your relative lives outside a town or wants to get out.
- How they take their daily break and their weeks off, and who covers.
Worth less than it looks
- A long list of conditions ticked on a profile: most carers tick most boxes.
- The lowest rate. It usually means less experience with complex needs, which is fine if the needs are not complex.
- A carer who agrees with everything you say. You want one who asks questions.
- Certificates on their own. We do not verify training, so ask what a course covered and when.
How to compare
How to choose between live-in carers in East Sussex
Four steps, and most families are talking to carers within a day. The interview is where the decision is made, so the questions are set out in full.
- 1
Write down a typical day and the hard parts
Half an hourMorning routine, meals, medication, what your relative enjoys, what goes wrong at night, and the one thing the last arrangement got wrong. This becomes your first message to every carer and the yardstick for every profile. - 2
Shortlist three from the search for East Sussex
FreeMatch experience to your list first, rate second. Read the reviews for specifics. Rule out nobody for having no reviews yet; rule in anyone whose profile answers your hard parts unprompted. - 3
A video call or a visit with each
This weekTwenty minutes each is enough. Use the questions below, and let your relative meet them if they can: their reaction is data too. - 4
Agree a two-week trial, then decide
Week 1 to 2Say it is a trial for both sides. Agree the rate, the break, the cover for weeks off, and how you will hear from them. The contract, invoicing and payment are set up on PrimeCarers.
Questions to ask every live-in carer at interview
0 of 11 ticked
Experience
Living together
Keeping us informed
What we check
What every carer on this page has passed, and what is yours to check
PrimeCarers is an introductory service. We check that a carer is caring and safe to introduce; whether they are right for your relative is a judgement only you can make, and the page above is built to help you make it.
Enhanced DBS, kept live
Identity and right to work
An online interview
What we do not verify
How we vet carers sets out each check in detail, and checking a carer yourself covers the questions to ask about training and references.
Questions
Questions families in East Sussex ask about choosing a live-in carer
By what their clients said and what they have done, not by anything we write. The carers on this page are the live-in carers based nearest East Sussex, ordered by their average client rating, then by how many reviews they have, then by years of experience. Every rating and review comes from a client who booked through PrimeCarers, and reviews are checked before they appear and never edited. 8 of the 12 carers shown have been reviewed, 7 of them at five stars. A carer with no reviews yet is not a worse carer, just a newer one to PrimeCarers, and their profile and interview tell you as much.
Yes. Before a carer appears on PrimeCarers they have passed an enhanced DBS check, an identity check and a right-to-work check, and had an online interview with our team. Their DBS is then kept on the Update Service and monitored continuously for as long as they work. We check that a carer is caring; their skills, qualifications and training are for you to check with them, and this page shows you how. How we vet carers sets out each step.
Yes, and you should. Message the carers you like through PrimeCarers with a short description of a typical day, then arrange a video call or a visit. Meeting is free and nothing is booked until you say so. Most families talk to two or three carers before choosing, and a good carer will ask you as many questions as you ask them. How to interview live-in carers has the questions that matter.
Then you change carer, and the same search shows who else is available. Notice under the contract is 48 hours until 168 hours of care have been worked and 7 days after that, and PrimeCarers charges nothing to stop or change care. It is worth agreeing at the start that the first two weeks are a trial for both sides; most carers suggest it themselves. Our team can help you find cover in the meantime.
Usually. 18 of the 23 nearest carers with a rate on their profile say they will care for a couple, and one carer for two people costs about £1,350 a week, a fifth more than for one rather than double. Where the two need very different things, read live-in care for couples before you talk to anyone.
Yes. Between them, the carers on this page speak Afrikaans, Bosnian, Croatian, Gujarati, Hindi and Serbian as well as English, and the search can filter by language. For someone whose first language has come back to them with dementia, a carer who shares it changes everything.
Many will, and the profile says so. 7 of the 8 carers on this page list the pets they are happy to care for. Feeding and letting a dog out are part of daily life; long walks and vet trips are worth agreeing before the carer arrives. Can a live-in carer look after a pet? covers what to ask.
The carers on this page advertise £153 to £170 a day, which is £1,069 to £1,190 a week with our fee included, and a typical week in East Sussex is £1,120. The best-rated are not the most expensive: rating follows kindness and reliability, and price follows experience with complex needs. The cost of live-in care in East Sussex goes through what changes the figure.