The short answer
- 100 live-in carers are based within about an hour of HaveringThe best-rated 12 are on this page. 3 have client reviews, 3 at five stars, from 4 reviews between them.
- Every one has passed the same checksaccepted criminal-record check (Enhanced DBS issued within the last 18 months, DBS Update Service, Scottish PVG or Access NI), identity, right to work, and an online interview. Their training and experience are for you to check with them.
- Rating follows kindness, price follows complexityThe best-reviewed carers are rarely the dearest. Reviews are about patience and reliability; higher rates go with complex-care and dementia experience.
- Meet two or three before you chooseFree, by video or in person. The right questions in that conversation tell you more than any profile.
Carers on this page are ordered by their average client rating, then reviews, then years of experience, from their profiles in October 2026. Nothing on a card is written by us.
Top-rated carers
The best-rated live-in carers in Havering
The live-in carers based nearest Havering, best-rated first, with the rate each has set. A carer without reviews is newer to PrimeCarers, not worse; read their profile and talk to them.
5 / 5
average rating of the reviewed carers in Havering
4
client reviews between them
11 yrs
average experience of the nearest carers
79
of the nearest 97 will care for a couple
From carers' own profiles and client reviews, October 2026.
100 live-in carers are based within about an hour of Havering
Filter by who cares for couples, who drives and what they charge, then message the ones you like. Free, and nothing is booked until you say so.
See live-in carers for HaveringWhat families say
What clients in Havering wrote about their carers
Reviews written by clients who booked through PrimeCarers, checked before they appear and never edited. Each links to the carer it is about.
“She is a safe pair of hands and her years of experience certainly shine through.”
Christine O., 2025
About Noami B.Live-in carer based in Barking · 4 reviews“Since Stella has been looking after Margaret her health and mobility has improved significantly from hardly being able to take a few steps to being able to go out for walks and climb the stairs.”
David T., 2022
About Stella O.Live-in carer based in Barking · 3 reviews“She was always cheerful and looking for ways to stimulate my mother. She became her "friend" and provided best care always.”
Julie G., 2021
About Lynette V.Live-in carer · 2 reviews“She treated my dad with dignity and patience, and her presence brought real peace of mind to our family during a challenging time.”
Steph F., 2025
About Paula M.Live-in carer based in Barking · 2 reviews“We couldn't have hoped for more positive, supportive and pleasurable care experience.”
Sarah K., 2023
About Garikayi C.Live-in carer based in Barking · 2 reviews“Charity would take Nan on holidays day trips and shopping adventures”
Bateman S., 2022
About Charity N.Live-in carer based in Ilford · 2 reviewsIn their own words
How the carers in Havering describe themselves
A profile is written by the carer, and the first few lines tell you a great deal: what they enjoy about the work, who they have cared for, and how they talk about the people they look after.
“I am an experienced and qualified carer with over 20 years of experience in the Health and Social Care Services.”
Lynette V.26 years experience · Speaks ShonaProfile →“I settle into a home for a fortnight at a time when I take on a live-in placement, which suits me.”
Veronica C.Based in Barking · 24 years experience · Speaks Bemba and ChichewaProfile →“My name is Ajoke Musilimat Adeshina I am a qualified Senior health care practitioner working with special need people for 7 years both adult and children's , I completed vocational courses such as BTEC Level 5HND in…”
Musilimat Ajoke A.Based in Romford · 8 years experienceProfile →“My working week can look quite different from one day to the next, a few hours here, a night shift there, or a longer stretch as a live-in carer, but what I enjoy most is the steady, everyday kind of support where you…”
Miriam M.Based in Upminster · 28 years experienceProfile →“For me, good care often starts with a simple shared activity, a game, a walk, or just finding something a person enjoys talking about.”
Lioba S.Based in Basildon · 25 years experience · Speaks Shona and SwahiliProfile →“I think back often to my grandparents, and how much I loved helping them when I was young.”
Jane M.Based in Dagenham · 24 years experienceProfile →8
of the 8 list dementia care on their profile
8
of the 8 have used a hoist
13
languages spoken between them besides English
6
of the 8 will look after a pet
From the profiles of the carers shown on this page.
What good looks like
What separates a good live-in carer from an adequate one
Families who have had both describe the difference the same way. It is rarely about qualifications, and almost always about these six things.
They notice
They keep to your relative’s day, not theirs
They talk to the family
They are careful with the boring things
They know what they do not know
They can live in someone else’s house
Worth weight when you compare
- Reviews that describe specific things the carer did, rather than general praise.
- Years of live-in experience, as opposed to hourly visits: the rhythm is different.
- Experience with your relative’s condition, said in their own words at interview.
- A car, if your relative lives outside a town or wants to get out.
- How they take their daily break and their weeks off, and who covers.
Worth less than it looks
- A long list of conditions ticked on a profile: most carers tick most boxes.
- The lowest rate. It usually means less experience with complex needs, which is fine if the needs are not complex.
- A carer who agrees with everything you say. You want one who asks questions.
- Certificates on their own. We do not verify training, so ask what a course covered and when.
How to compare
How to choose between live-in carers in Havering
Four steps, and most families are talking to carers within a day. The interview is where the decision is made, so the questions are set out in full.
- 1
Write down a typical day and the hard parts
Half an hourMorning routine, meals, medication, what your relative enjoys, what goes wrong at night, and the one thing the last arrangement got wrong. This becomes your first message to every carer and the yardstick for every profile. - 2
Shortlist three from the search for Havering
FreeMatch experience to your list first, rate second. Read the reviews for specifics. Rule out nobody for having no reviews yet; rule in anyone whose profile answers your hard parts unprompted. - 3
A video call or a visit with each
This weekTwenty minutes each is enough. Use the questions below, and let your relative meet them if they can: their reaction is data too. - 4
Agree a two-week trial, then decide
Week 1 to 2Say it is a trial for both sides. Agree the rate, the break, the cover for weeks off, and how you will hear from them. The contract, invoicing and payment are set up on PrimeCarers.
Questions to ask every live-in carer at interview
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Experience
Living together
Keeping us informed
What we check
What every carer on this page has passed, and what is yours to check
PrimeCarers is an introductory service. We check that a carer is caring and safe to introduce; whether they are right for your relative is a judgement only you can make, and the page above is built to help you make it.
Enhanced DBS, renewed every 18 months
Identity and right to work
An online interview
What we do not verify
How we vet carers sets out each check in detail, and checking a carer yourself covers the questions to ask about training and references.
Questions
Questions families in Havering ask about choosing a live-in carer
By what their clients said and what they have done, not by anything we write. The carers on this page are the live-in carers based nearest Havering, ordered by their average client rating, then by how many reviews they have, then by years of experience. Every rating and review comes from a client who booked through PrimeCarers, and reviews are checked before they appear and never edited. 3 of the 12 carers shown have been reviewed, 3 of them at five stars. A carer with no reviews yet is not a worse carer, just a newer one to PrimeCarers, and their profile and interview tell you as much.
Yes. Before a carer appears on PrimeCarers they complete identity, right-to-work and interview checks, plus an accepted criminal-record check: a standalone Enhanced DBS within 18 months, DBS Update Service, Scottish PVG or Access NI. Renewal and rechecks depend on the route. We check that a carer is caring; their skills, qualifications and training are for you to check with them, and this page shows you how. How we vet carers sets out each step.
Yes, and you should. Message the carers you like through PrimeCarers with a short description of a typical day, then arrange a video call or a visit. Meeting is free and nothing is booked until you say so. Most families talk to two or three carers before choosing, and a good carer will ask you as many questions as you ask them. How to interview live-in carers has the questions that matter.
Then you change carer, and the same search shows who else is available. Notice under the contract is 48 hours until 168 hours of care have been worked and 7 days after that, and PrimeCarers charges nothing to stop or change care. It is worth agreeing at the start that the first two weeks are a trial for both sides; most carers suggest it themselves. Our team can help you find cover in the meantime.
Usually. 79 of the 97 nearest carers with a rate on their profile say they will care for a couple, and one carer for two people costs about £1,350 a week, a fifth more than for one rather than double. Where the two need very different things, read live-in care for couples before you talk to anyone.
Yes. Between them, the carers on this page speak Akan, Bemba, Chichewa, Ewe, FANTE, GA, Jamaican, Shona, Spanish, Swahili, Twi, Xhosa and Zulu as well as English, and the search can filter by language. For someone whose first language has come back to them with dementia, a carer who shares it changes everything.
Many will, and the profile says so. 6 of the 8 carers on this page list the pets they are happy to care for. Feeding and letting a dog out are part of daily life; long walks and vet trips are worth agreeing before the carer arrives. Can a live-in carer look after a pet? covers what to ask.
The carers on this page advertise £145 to £160 a day, which is £1,015 to £1,120 a week with our fee included, and a typical week in Havering is £1,050. The best-rated are not the most expensive: rating follows kindness and reliability, and price follows experience with complex needs. The cost of live-in care in Havering goes through what changes the figure.