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Bladder and bowel problems with MS, and what helps

MS damages the nerve signals between the brain, the spinal cord and the bladder and bowel. The organs themselves are usually working normally, which is why this is treatable rather than something to put up with. This guide covers the four patterns those damaged signals produce, why constipation makes bladder symptoms worse, what an NHS continence service can offer, and which parts of the day a carer can help with.

By James Bowdler, founder of PrimeCarers  ·  Updated September 2026  ·  12 min read · See the four patterns

A woman with a walking stick pouring a glass of water in her kitchen while a carer sets down porridge and fruit, a daily routine pinned to the fridge

Part of our guide to ms care.

Why it happens

MS damages the signals to the bladder and bowel, not the organs

Emptying a bladder is a conversation between the bladder, the spinal cord and the part of the brain that decides when it is convenient. MS leaves patches of damage along the pathways that carry it, so parts of the message arrive late, arrive muddled, or do not arrive.

The words you will hear at the appointment

Neurogenic bladder
Bladder trouble caused by damage to the nerves that control it, rather than by anything wrong with the bladder itself.
Urgency, frequency and nocturia
Needing the toilet with very little warning, needing it more often, and being woken by it at night.
Incomplete emptying
A stream slow to start or stopping and starting, and the feeling of still being full. Retention is the extreme version.
Residual volume
How much urine is left in the bladder straight after passing water, measured with a small ultrasound scanner held against the tummy. It decides what happens next.
Intermittent self-catheterisation
Passing a thin, single-use tube to drain the bladder several times a day, removing it each time. A continence nurse teaches it.
Continence service
The free NHS bladder and bowel service for your area. In many areas you can contact it without going through the GP.

Because the damage is to the pathway rather than the organ, the symptoms move around. A relapse can change the pattern in a fortnight and change it back, and heat, tiredness or an infection can make an existing pattern worse for days without anything new having happened. That is the same reason MS fatigue runs the shape of the day, and the MS care pillar sets out how the day flexes around it.

Bladder & Bowel UK describes problems like these as very common and rarely talked about, and worry about being far from a toilet is one of the reasons people stop going out. There is a free NHS service whose whole job is this, staffed by nurses who deal with it every day.

The four patterns

The four patterns, and how the bowel and bladder feed each other

Most of what MS does here falls into four patterns, and somebody can have more than one at a time. Each is set out with what the nerves are doing, what it looks like in an ordinary day, what the NHS can offer, and which part a carer can take on.

Urgency and frequency

Sometimes called an overactive bladder

What the nerve signals are doing
The bladder tells the spinal cord it is filling, but the message from the brain that holds it until the person is ready does not get through. The bladder muscle contracts while it is still filling.
What it looks like in a day
Very little warning before needing the toilet, going more often through the day, and waking in the night to go.
What the NHS can offer
Timed toileting or bladder retraining after an assessment, pelvic floor muscle training where the muscles can still be squeezed voluntarily, and medicines that calm the bladder muscle.
What a carer can do
Builds the day around toilet stops, keeps the route to the bathroom clear, and gets there in time without making an occasion of it.

Not emptying properly

Hesitancy, a stopping stream, and retention

What the nerve signals are doing
The bladder muscle and the ring of muscle at the outlet stop working in step, so the outlet tightens at the moment the bladder squeezes. The bladder muscle can also stop before the bladder is empty.
What it looks like in a day
Waiting for it to start, a slow or interrupted stream, and needing to go again soon after going. Urine left behind is what makes infections more likely.
What the NHS can offer
A bladder scan to measure what is left behind after passing urine, and intermittent self-catheterisation taught by a continence nurse if that residual volume is high.
What a carer can do
Keeps the catheter kit and the drinks within reach, writes down the pattern for the nurse, and rings the nurse if nothing is passing at all.

Constipation

The one most likely to be left alone

What the nerve signals are doing
The messages that move waste along the bowel, and the ones that report the bowel is full, are slowed or muddled. Moving about less slows it further, and some bladder and pain medicines make it worse again.
What it looks like in a day
Going less often than usual, straining, and a full, uncomfortable feeling that does not clear. It also makes every bladder symptom above worse.
What the NHS can offer
A bowel routine set by the continence service or the MS nurse, fibre and fluids, and laxatives or suppositories where they are prescribed.
What a carer can do
Keeps the routine at the same time each day, keeps the food and drinks going, gives the person time and privacy, and records what happened.

Bowel urgency and accidents

Faecal incontinence

What the nerve signals are doing
The muscle that holds the bowel closed is weakened by the same nerve damage, or the warning that something is coming arrives too late to be any use.
What it looks like in a day
Little notice, sometimes none, and worry about being far from a toilet. Constipation can sit behind this too, with looser stool passing around a blockage.
What the NHS can offer
Assessment by a continence service, which may include emptying the bowel at a planned time each day so there is less there to leak, and advice on products.
What a carer can do
Knows the plan, has clean clothes and washing things ready before they are needed, and treats it as part of the day rather than an event.

Why the bowel is usually dealt with first

A full bowel presses on the bladder. It can obstruct the flow of urine and reduce how much the bladder will hold, so somebody who is constipated needs the toilet more often and empties less well when they get there. That is why a continence service will often sort out the constipation before changing anything about the bladder, and why a carer keeping a bowel routine steady can improve two problems at once.

Patterns drawn from NICE clinical guideline CG148 on urinary incontinence in neurological disease, NICE guideline NG220 on multiple sclerosis in adults, the NHS pages on urinary catheters, incontinence products and constipation, and the MS Trust entries on bladder and bowel problems. MS Trust, bladder problems; NHS, causes of urinary incontinence, which lists constipation among the obstructions behind overflow incontinence.

Urine left behind in the bladder makes infections more likely, and an infection can make MS symptoms worse for days without being a relapse. NICE tells clinicians that unexplained changes in neurological symptoms, such as confusion or worsening spasticity, can be caused by urinary tract disease. If somebody with MS seems suddenly worse and nobody can say why, a urine sample is a reasonable early question.

The loop between the bowel and the bladder above matters just as much: a family told about the bladder and not the bowel is working on the harder half. Managing incontinence covers the same ground for an older person without MS.

Raising it

How to raise it, and what happens at a continence assessment

Nobody has to arrive with the right words. Saying that going to the toilet has become difficult, or that there have been accidents, is enough to start this off.

  1. 1

    Tell the MS nurse or the GP

    The first call
    The MS nurse is usually quickest, because they know the history and can tell a new symptom from a relapse. Without one, the GP does the same job. Say how long it has been going on and whether anything is being passed at all.
  2. 2

    Ask for the continence service

    Free, sometimes self-referral
    Every area has an NHS bladder and bowel service. Ask the GP to refer, or contact it directly where self-referral is allowed. It measures, teaches and reviews everything further down this page.
  3. 3

    Keep a chart before the appointment

    Three days
    NICE asks people, and their family members and carers, to record fluids taken in, how often urine is passed and how much, for at least three days. Doing it beforehand saves several weeks, and a carer can keep it for the visits they are there for.
  4. 4

    The assessment itself

    Usually one appointment
    A history, an examination, a urine dipstick test for infection, and a bladder scan to measure what is left behind after passing water. NICE suggests measuring that residual volume on more than one occasion, because emptying varies through the day.
  5. 5

    A plan, and a review of it

    Ongoing
    What follows depends on the scan and the chart. NICE says anybody using catheters, appliances or pads should get training from staff who know the products, and have those products reviewed at least every two years.

What helps

What a continence service can offer, from a scan to a catheter

These are set out so that none of them is a surprise when a nurse mentions it. Which one fits depends on the scan, the chart and what somebody can manage with their own hands, so treat it as a guide to the conversation.

A bladder scan and residual volume

What it is for
Finding out whether the bladder is emptying, and settling what happens next
What it involves
A small ultrasound scanner held against the tummy straight after passing water. It takes a minute and hurts nothing. A high residual volume changes the plan, because treating urgency without checking emptying can make retention worse. Timed toileting and bladder retraining are the usual first answer to urgency once emptying has been checked.

Pelvic floor muscle training

What it is for
Leaking, where the muscles can still be squeezed voluntarily
What it involves
Exercises taught after a specialist pelvic floor assessment, sometimes with biofeedback or electrical stimulation. NICE names MS as a condition where this is worth considering.

Medicines for an overactive bladder

What it is for
Calming a bladder muscle that contracts too early
What it involves
Antimuscarinic tablets are the usual first step. They can reduce bladder emptying and worsen constipation, so NICE asks for residual volume to be monitored after starting them.

Intermittent self-catheterisation

What it is for
A bladder that will not empty on its own
What it involves
A thin single-use tube passed several times a day to drain the bladder, then removed. A continence nurse teaches it. It needs reasonable hand function, which is where MS in the hands comes into the decision.

An indwelling or suprapubic catheter

What it is for
When intermittent catheterisation is not possible
What it involves
A catheter left in place, draining into a leg bag or a valve. An indwelling one goes in through the urethra and is changed at least every three months; a suprapubic one goes through a small opening in the tummy and is changed every four to twelve weeks. NICE asks clinicians to explain that these carry a higher risk of stones and kidney problems than intermittent catheterisation.

A bowel routine

What it is for
Constipation, and the accidents that follow it
What it involves
Emptying the bowel at the same time each day, with fibre, fluids and a footstool to raise the knees above the hips. The NHS advice is a regular time and place, plenty of time, and not putting off the urge. Laxatives or suppositories where prescribed.

Drawn from NICE clinical guideline CG148 on urinary incontinence in neurological disease, last updated October 2023, and the NHS guidance on urinary catheters and constipation. Which of these fits one person is for the continence service and the MS nurse to decide.

Pads, pull-up pants, bed protection, catheters and skin care products may be available through the NHS. The NHS says this depends on your local integrated care board, and that you may need to be assessed by a healthcare professional to qualify, so the assessment is free everywhere while the product supply varies by area. Asking the continence service is the only way to find out what yours does. Bladder & Bowel UK is a charity with a nurse-staffed helpline giving independent advice on products, and the MS Trust explains the bladder and bowel side of MS plainly.

Carer or nurse

What a carer can do, and what has to stay with a nurse

Families most often get this wrong either by assuming a carer can do less than they can, or by asking one to do something clinical because the district nurse is hard to reach.

Ordinary personal care a carer can agree to

  • Helping somebody to the toilet in time, staying near enough to be useful without standing over them
  • Pads, washing, drying and skin care, with clean clothes ready before they are needed
  • Keeping the bowel routine at the same time each day, with the food, drinks and privacy it needs
  • Emptying a catheter bag, swapping a leg bag for a night bag, and washing the skin where the catheter enters the body
  • Keeping the chart the continence service asked for, and counting the stock in the cupboard
  • Ringing the MS nurse, district nurse or GP when something changes

Clinical work, for a nurse or a delegated task

  • Inserting, removing or unblocking a catheter, which is nursing work
  • Suppositories, enemas or emptying the bowel by hand, unless formally delegated as a healthcare task
  • Deciding whether a colour, a smell or a residual volume is a problem, rather than reporting it
  • Changing a dose, holding a tablet back, or starting anything the plan does not mention
  • Taking a task on because the district nurse is hard to reach

None of the clinical tasks is closed off for good. A regulated healthcare professional can hand a named clinical task to a named carer, for one person, after assessing them, teaching them on that person's own equipment and watching them do it. Who can train a carer to do catheter care sets out who may delegate, what the sign-off should look like and who is answerable afterwards, and catheter and stoma care at home covers the daily routine, including which parts are plain personal care.

Day to day

Privacy, the same carer, and still going out

Once the clinical plan is settled, what is left is a set of small practical arrangements, and these are the ones that decide whether somebody keeps going out of the house.

Privacy is part of the task

Door closed, the carer outside it unless help is needed, and a way of calling them back. Say at the start how much help is wanted, and put it in the care plan so it is not renegotiated every morning.

Agree it at the first visit

The same carer wherever possible

Continence care means telling somebody something most people have never said out loud. Somebody who already knows the routine notices a change within a week, and the person does not have to explain themselves again. A bowel routine also works best at a settled time, so book the visit around it. Visits on PrimeCarers are booked in half hours with a one-hour minimum.

Agree it before you book

Drinks earlier in the day, not fewer drinks

Cutting fluids to avoid accidents concentrates the urine, which the NHS says can irritate the bladder and worsen overactivity, and it worsens constipation too. The usual answer is the same fluid with more of it in the morning.

A common mistake

Planning a trip out around toilets

Knowing where the toilets are on the route, going before leaving rather than when the urge arrives, and carrying a change of clothes. Bladder & Bowel UK issues a card asking for urgent toilet access, which some people find makes asking easier.

What keeps somebody going out

If you want help with a routine from the same person each time, search for carers near you and compare their rates and read what each one says they have done before. Hourly visits on PrimeCarers run from £18 to £25 an hour with our fee included, against £28 to £35 for an agency visit, and our pricing sets out what is in that figure. If nights and transfers now need somebody there all the time, progressive MS and round-the-clock care covers what changes, cover at short notice during a relapse covers the harder fortnights, and funding care sets out what may pay towards it.

Questions

Questions families ask about bladder and bowel care with MS

No. MS damages the nerve signals that control the bladder rather than the bladder itself, and much of what follows responds to treatment. NICE has a guideline devoted to urinary incontinence in neurological disease, and expects bladder and bowel function to be assessed at the comprehensive MS review everybody with MS should have at least once a year. If it has never come up at that review, raise it.

Part of it. Emptying a bag, swapping a leg bag for a night bag, washing the skin where the catheter enters the body and watching what drains are ordinary personal care. Putting a catheter in, taking it out or unblocking one is nursing work. Between the two sits a small group of tasks a nurse can formally hand to a named carer after training them on that person’s own equipment, which is set out on who can train a carer to do catheter care.

It depends where you live. The NHS says you may be able to get incontinence products on the NHS depending on your local integrated care board, and that you may need to be assessed by a healthcare professional to qualify. The continence assessment itself is free everywhere. NICE adds that products should be reviewed at least every two years.

A full bowel presses on the bladder. It can obstruct the flow of urine and reduce how much the bladder holds, so somebody who is constipated needs the toilet more often and empties less well when they get there. The NHS lists constipation among the obstructions behind overflow incontinence, which is why a continence service often deals with the bowel first.

It can make existing symptoms worse for a few days without being a relapse. NICE tells clinicians that unexplained changes in neurological symptoms, such as confusion or worsening spasticity, can be caused by urinary tract disease, and its MS guideline names infections among the things that worsen spasticity. A urine sample is a reasonable early question for the GP or MS nurse.

Hourly visits on PrimeCarers run from £18 to £25 an hour with our fee included, typically around £20. Agencies charge £28 to £35 an hour for the same visit. Visits are booked in half hours with a one-hour minimum, which matters because a bowel routine cannot be done to a fifteen-minute call. Funding care covers what the council, the NHS and benefits may pay towards it.

If you need help at home

Start with our guide to ms care

Support that flexes with relapses. What it costs, what a carer does day to day, and how to hire one directly.

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