The short answer
- A carer works around the equipment, a nurse works on itEmptying a drainage bag or a stoma pouch, washing the skin and noticing a change are personal care. Inserting, removing or unblocking a catheter is not.
- The tasks in between are handed over in writingBasic catheter care and basic stoma care are what Skills for Care calls delegated healthcare activities. A nurse trains a named carer and keeps the clinical oversight.
- There is a short list of signs that need a phone callA catheter that stops draining or falls out, a stoma that stops working, a temperature or new confusion all need somebody clinical the same day.
- Ask the carer directly what they have done beforePrimeCarers checks identity, right to work and an enhanced DBS, and interviews every carer online. Training and experience sit on the carer's own profile for you to check.
Figures on this page are what carers on PrimeCarers charge, £18 to £25 an hour with our fee included, against £28 to £35 through an agency.
Carer or nurse
Where the line sits between a carer and a district nurse
A catheter or a stoma changes what a day at home involves, and very little of what it involves is a clinical procedure. Sort the work into three tiers before you speak to anybody, because the answer is different in each one.
- Tier 1
Everyday help, written into the care plan you agree with the carer
None of this is a clinical procedure. It is ordinary personal care around equipment that is already in place, and it is the part of the day that takes the most time.
- Washing hands before and after touching any of the equipment
- Emptying a drainage bag before it is full, and emptying a stoma pouch
- Washing the skin where the catheter enters the body with mild soap and water each day
- Keeping the tube unkinked and the night bag on its stand near the floor
- Watching what comes out, and how much, and writing it down
- Encouraging drinks through the day, and food that does not cause a blockage
- Laundry, a clean bed, clean clothes, and the door closed while it is done
- Noticing sore skin, a leak or a smell, and telling you and the nurse
- Keeping an eye on how many bags and pouches are left before they run out
- Being in the house when the district nurse or stoma nurse visits
- Tier 2
Handed over by a nurse, to a named person they have trained and signed off
Skills for Care and the Department of Health and Social Care call these delegated healthcare activities, and their published examples include basic catheter care and basic stoma care. The nurse stays accountable for the decision to hand the task over and for the clinical oversight afterwards, and anyone asked to do it can say they do not feel safe doing it.
- Changing a leg bag or a catheter valve on the weekly schedule
- Connecting and disconnecting a night bag
- Changing the whole stoma appliance rather than emptying it
- Using a specific barrier product or paste on the skin around a stoma
- Recording fluid in and out on a chart the nurse has set up
- Anything else the nursing team has taught, watched and written down
- Tier 3
The district nurse or the stoma nurse, and nobody else
These are clinical procedures. Asking a carer to do them puts the carer outside what they are insured and competent to do, and it puts your relative at risk of an infection or an injury that is hard to undo.
- Putting in, taking out or replacing the catheter itself
- Unblocking a catheter, or a bladder washout
- Deciding whether an infection needs treating, and prescribing for it
- Treating broken or bleeding skin around a stoma or a catheter site
- Wound dressings, injections and anything given into the body
- Assessing a change in the stoma itself, such as swelling or prolapse
- Changing the type of catheter, pouch or appliance being used
Tier 2 follows the delegated healthcare activities guiding principles published by Skills for Care with the Department of Health and Social Care, updated in November 2024. Tiers 1 and 3 follow the NHS guidance on living with a urinary catheter and on life after a colostomy.
Everything in the first tier is personal care, the same category as helping somebody wash and dress, and it is where most of a visit goes. What personal care covers sets out the wider list.
The second tier is the one to get in writing. Skills for Care, the Department of Health and Social Care and the Care Quality Commission publish guiding principles for delegated healthcare activities, which are tasks a registered professional such as a nurse hands to a paid care worker. Basic catheter care and basic stoma care appear among their examples. The principles ask for informed consent, appropriate learning and development so the activity can be carried out safely, and ongoing clinical oversight from the healthcare professional, who stays responsible for reviewing the healthcare plan. They also expect everyone involved to feel able to raise a concern if a task cannot be carried out safely, so a carer who says they have not been trained for something is following the guidance.
The third tier does not move, whoever is in the house. If your relative needs a lot of the second and third tiers, the arrangement is closer to nurse-led than carer-led care, and complex care at home explains how that is put together. Medication follows the same shape, and what a carer can and cannot do with medication is worth reading next.
Living with a catheter
What help with a catheter looks like across a day
An indwelling catheter drains into a bag strapped to the leg through the day, and into a larger bag on a stand at night. This is the part of the NHS guidance on living with a urinary catheter that turns into a carer's visit.
What to agree with the carer before the first visit
0 of 10 ticked
In every visit
At the ends of the day
Through the week
Infection is the risk behind all of this, and hand washing and daily skin washing are most of the defence. Preventing infections at home covers the wider habits, and managing incontinence with dignity helps if a catheter is only part of the picture. If the hard part is the middle of the night, night care for falls and toilet trips sets out what an overnight carer covers that a visit cannot.
Living with a stoma
What help with a stoma looks like across a day
A stoma is an opening on the tummy that waste passes through into a pouch. The pouch is emptied through the day and the whole appliance is changed on its own rhythm. The skin underneath decides whether the pouch stays on and whether the day is comfortable.
Emptying and changing the pouch
Part of any visit
The skin around the stoma
Every change
Food and drink
Every day
Supplies and prescriptions
Before the last box
The stoma care nurse is the person to build the arrangement around. They know which appliance your relative is using, can change it if the skin is not tolerating it, and can teach a carer a specific task and write it down. Arrange for the carer to be in the house for the first few of those visits, so the same instructions reach everybody.
The NHS sets out what changes after a colostomy and the complications to watch for. If your relative is sitting or lying for long stretches, how pressure sores start covers checks a carer can make at the same time as the pouch, and privacy and dignity for an older person covers the part families find hardest to talk about. Two charities give free information and run helplines for people living with a stoma and their families: Colostomy UK and Bladder and Bowel UK.
When to ring somebody
The signs that need a phone call, and who to ring
The value of having somebody in the house is that they see the exceptions early. These are the ones the NHS says to act on, and who to ring for each.
| What it can mean | Who to ring | |
|---|---|---|
| No urine draining for hours, severe bladder spasms, or urine leaking around the catheter | The NHS lists all three among the reasons to get advice. A blocked catheter leaves the bladder filling with nowhere to go. | District nursing team the same day, or the out-of-hours number at night. |
| Blood-stained urine, or bright red bleeding | Both are on the NHS list of reasons to contact somebody, and bright red bleeding is the more urgent. | District nursing team straight away. |
| The catheter falls out | It cannot be put back by anybody the nursing team has not taught. | District nursing team straight away. Nobody should try to replace it. |
| Pain low in the tummy or groin, a high temperature, feeling hot, cold or shivery, or new confusion | The NHS lists these as signs of a urinary tract infection, confusion included, and confusion is easy to put down to a bad day. | GP or community nurse the same day. |
| Nothing out of the stoma for much longer than is normal, with severe tummy pain | The NHS says to get help urgently, because the bowel may be obstructed. | NHS 111 or the GP, urgently. |
| A lot of blood from the stoma, a very high temperature, or signs of dehydration | All three are on the NHS list of colostomy complications needing urgent advice. | NHS 111 or the GP, urgently. |
| Sore or broken skin around the stoma, or a pouch that will not stay on | Skin damage is a recognised complication, and there are appliances that deal with it. | Stoma nurse, in the next day or two. |
| Swelling around the stoma, or the stoma changing shape | The NHS lists a hernia, the stoma sinking back in and the stoma coming out too far among treatable problems. | Stoma nurse or GP, unless there is pain or a blockage too. |
No urine draining for hours, severe bladder spasms, or urine leaking around the catheter
- What it can mean
- The NHS lists all three among the reasons to get advice. A blocked catheter leaves the bladder filling with nowhere to go.
- Who to ring
- District nursing team the same day, or the out-of-hours number at night.
Blood-stained urine, or bright red bleeding
- What it can mean
- Both are on the NHS list of reasons to contact somebody, and bright red bleeding is the more urgent.
- Who to ring
- District nursing team straight away.
The catheter falls out
- What it can mean
- It cannot be put back by anybody the nursing team has not taught.
- Who to ring
- District nursing team straight away. Nobody should try to replace it.
Pain low in the tummy or groin, a high temperature, feeling hot, cold or shivery, or new confusion
- What it can mean
- The NHS lists these as signs of a urinary tract infection, confusion included, and confusion is easy to put down to a bad day.
- Who to ring
- GP or community nurse the same day.
Nothing out of the stoma for much longer than is normal, with severe tummy pain
- What it can mean
- The NHS says to get help urgently, because the bowel may be obstructed.
- Who to ring
- NHS 111 or the GP, urgently.
A lot of blood from the stoma, a very high temperature, or signs of dehydration
- What it can mean
- All three are on the NHS list of colostomy complications needing urgent advice.
- Who to ring
- NHS 111 or the GP, urgently.
Sore or broken skin around the stoma, or a pouch that will not stay on
- What it can mean
- Skin damage is a recognised complication, and there are appliances that deal with it.
- Who to ring
- Stoma nurse, in the next day or two.
Swelling around the stoma, or the stoma changing shape
- What it can mean
- The NHS lists a hernia, the stoma sinking back in and the stoma coming out too far among treatable problems.
- Who to ring
- Stoma nurse or GP, unless there is pain or a blockage too.
Sources: NHS guidance on living with a urinary catheter, on its risks, and on complications of a colostomy, read on 15 September 2026.
Finding the right carer
How to find a carer who has done this before
Experience with a catheter or a stoma is established in a conversation with the carer, not assumed from a profile. Ask before you book rather than on the first morning.
What to ask a carer before you book
- Whether they have supported somebody with a catheter or a stoma before, and for how long
- What training they have had for it, who gave it, and when
- Whether they would be trained and signed off by the district nurse for a named task
- How they would handle a leaking pouch, or a bag that has stopped draining at seven in the morning
- Who they would ring first, and what they would write down for you afterwards
- Whether they are comfortable saying no to something they have not been trained for
What PrimeCarers does not check
- Qualifications, training courses and references, which sit on a carer's own profile for you to read and ask about
- What happens inside a visit, because PrimeCarers introduces carers rather than employing, managing or supervising them
- Anything clinical: PrimeCarers is an introductory service, is not CQC-registered, and does not write, review or hold care plans
What PrimeCarers does check is the same for every carer before they appear in a search: identity, the right to work in the UK, an enhanced DBS check on the Update Service, and an online interview. How we vet every carer sets out what that covers. Insurance is separate from the checks: cover is arranged for carers while they are working with a client. The contract between your relative and the carer also says a carer should not undertake work they feel unqualified to perform and should tell the client, so that other arrangements can be made.
When you are ready, search for carers near your relative, read what each one lists about their experience, rate and availability, then message two or three and ask the questions above. You compare the profiles and talk to the carers yourself. If the arrangement has to change later, notice is 48 hours for hourly care, and a visit cancelled by the client is payable in full unless it is unplanned hospitalisation, illness, or another reason the carer agrees; the client contract has the wording.
Questions
Questions families ask about catheters and stomas at home
Yes. Emptying a drainage bag is ordinary personal care, and the NHS advice is to empty it before it is completely full, at around half to three-quarters. Agree it in the care plan before the first visit. Changing the leg bag or the valve, which the NHS says happens every 7 days, is a step further and is better handed over by the district nurse.
Not as a matter of course. The NHS says an indwelling catheter has to be removed and replaced at least every 3 months and that this is normally done by a doctor or a nurse, though it adds that sometimes it may be possible to teach you or your carer to do it. That decision belongs to the nursing team. If a catheter blocks or falls out, contact the community nursing team.
Emptying a pouch is part of an ordinary visit. Changing the whole appliance is what Skills for Care calls a delegated healthcare activity: the stoma nurse trains a named carer, checks they can do it safely and keeps the clinical oversight afterwards. Ask the nurse to arrange it, and expect it to be written down.
District nursing is an NHS community service for people who cannot get to a surgery, and the referral usually comes from the hospital ward on discharge, from the GP, or from another healthcare professional. If your relative is being discharged with a catheter or a new stoma, ask the ward to refer before they leave, and ask for the team's daytime and out-of-hours numbers. Otherwise ring the GP surgery.
No. PrimeCarers checks identity, the right to work in the UK and an enhanced DBS on the Update Service, and interviews every carer online. Cover is arranged for carers while they work. Qualifications, training and references are not checked; carers list them on their own profile. Ask the carer what they have done before, and ask the nurse to train and sign off anything specific. How we vet every carer has the full list.
It should name the equipment and the tasks the carer is doing, say who trained them for anything that needed training and when, say what gets written down after each visit, and say who to ring for which problem. PrimeCarers does not write, review or hold care plans; the plan is something you and the carer agree together, with the nursing team.
Not on its own. What decides it is whether help is needed at fixed points in the day, which visits cover well, or at unpredictable moments including the night, which visits do not. Look at overnight care first, and at live-in care if the concern runs through the whole day. Complex care at home covers arrangements with a lot of nursing input.

