Respite careMedway
If you look after someone and need a break, you can book a carer to cover you for a week, a fortnight or a single weekend. A fortnight of live-in cover in Medway is around £2,220, and you deal with the carer directly rather than through an agency. This page sets out what cover costs near you, who is available, and how it compares with a short stay in a care home.
56 carers within about 45 minutes of Medway, bookable for as long or as short as you need
A week of cover in Medway
That is £240 a week less, because you pay the carer rather than an agency and their margin. The full comparison is below.
The money
Every row is the same thing: one week of somebody there day and night while you are away. Ours comes from what live-in carers within reach of Medway advertise. The rest comes from what local agencies and care homes publish about themselves.
A live-in carer from PrimeCarersCheapest
£1,110a week
one carer in the house, day and night
A live-in carer through a local agency
£1,350a week
what 21 nearby agencies advertise
A care home bed nearby
£1,425a week
the median of 14 homes that publish a fee
Booking the carer yourself saves about £240 a week against the cheapest alternative in Medway, or £480 over a fortnight. The difference is not a discount on the carer. It is the agency margin you are no longer paying, and the carer is generally paid more, not less.
Not every break is a fortnight away. If you are staying local and just need to sleep, see friends or get to your own appointments, visiting care is the cheaper shape: 14 hours a week at £19 an hour is £266 a week. The 24 local agencies that publish an hourly rate average £24, which would be £336 for the same hours.
This is deliberately not in the table above. A few hours a day and a carer living in the house are different things, and putting them on one list would make the cheaper one look like the same purchase.
The care home figure is the median weekly fee at 14 homes within about 30 kilometres that publish one, out of 445 in the area. Most homes do not publish a fee at all, and a short respite stay is often quoted above a home's standard weekly rate, so treat it as a floor rather than a quote.
What it adds up to as the break gets longer
What else is near you
We keep a directory of home care agencies and care homes, including the prices they publish. None of them pay us to be listed and we earn nothing if you choose one.
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agencies covering the area
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24 of them publish an hourly rate at all. The middle of those charges £24 an hour, with the range running £22 to £26. An agency employs and rotas its carers, which is the right answer for some families and is what the extra pays for.
The decision
On price, staying put wins in Medway, and by enough that it is usually the end of the argument. But price is not the only reason families choose it.
A couple pays once. Around nine in ten carers on PrimeCarers will look after two people, so one live-in carer covers a husband and wife at one price. A care home charges for two beds. Where both of them would otherwise move, care at home is close to half the cost.
Nothing has to move. A fortnight away means packing, settling into an unfamiliar building and coming home again. For someone with dementia the disruption is the risk, not the fee, and families often tell us the person who came back was not quite the person who went.
You can start smaller than you think. Respite does not have to be a fortnight. A weekend, or a few hours twice a week so you can sleep or see friends, is often what stops things reaching breaking point.
A care home is the better answer for some breaks, particularly when someone needs several staff to move them safely or nursing through the night. Care at home or a care home puts the two side by side, and respite at home or in a care home covers this choice on its own.
Who is available
56 carers are based within about 45 minutes of Medway. You can see their rates and experience, and message them, before committing to anything.
56 private carers are based within about 45 minutes of Medway
Filter by what they charge, who drives, who does nights, and who speaks your language, then message the ones you like. Free, and nothing is booked until you say so.
See private carers for MedwayIn their words
“If the care business were an Olympic sport there's no doubt you would be a gold-medal champion. Your kindness, patience and sheer professionalism are absolutely outstanding.”
Veronica m H., 2026
About Francisca Eva A.Live-in carer based in Rochester“Always on time and with a lovely smile for my mum. Theresa is kind and sensitive to my mum's needs.”
Anthea D., 2020
About Theresa L.Live-in carer based in Greenhithe · 3 reviews“Irene was a very kind and empathetic carer who knew just the right words to say to put a smile on my face.”
Winnie N., 2024
About Irene N.Live-in carer based in Gillingham · 2 reviewsHow it works
Across the county
From the profiles of the carers based within about 45 minutes of Medway
For a block of cover a carer's home town matters less than usual: a live-in carer moves in for the period, so the drive only happens twice.
Carers travel, so the next county’s carers are yours too
Each town page shows the carers who list it as home, and the rates they advertise.
Read next
This page is about what a break costs and who is free. These answer the rest.
Or read the respite care guide from the start, and what respite care covers if you are still working out what you need in Medway.
Questions
For a live-in carer who stays in the house, a week is typically £1,110 in Medway, so a fortnight is about £2,220. For daily visits instead, carers here advertise around £19 an hour, so two hours a day comes to roughly £266 a week. A local agency charges about £24 an hour for the same visits, because you are paying the agency as well as the carer. Nothing is charged until you book, and there is no ongoing contract.
Usually, yes. A care home bed in Medway is around £1,425 a week, the median of 14 homes nearby that publish a fee. A live-in carer at home is typically £1,110. Two things usually decide it rather than the headline figure. A care home charges per person, so a couple pays twice while one live-in carer covers both. And a respite stay means packing, moving and settling somebody into an unfamiliar building for a fortnight, then moving them home again, which is the part families tell us they regret.
Less than most people expect. You are talking to self-employed carers directly, so it depends on who happens to be free rather than on an agency's rota. Some carers can start within a few days. That said, school holidays and Christmas go first, so if your break is already in the diary it is worth lining someone up now. You can message carers and agree dates before committing to anything.
Possibly. If you look after someone regularly you are entitled to a carer's assessment from your council, which is separate from any assessment of the person you care for, and it can lead to funding for a break. It is worth asking even if the person you look after pays for their own care, because the assessment is about your needs, not theirs. Medway council sets out how it charges for care and support. How to fund respite care goes through the options.
Whatever you normally do, agreed in advance and written down before you go. That usually covers personal care, medication prompts, meals, keeping the house going and company, plus anything specific like a hoist or a night routine. A live-in carer sleeps in the house and is there overnight. If the person you look after is up several times a night, say so early, because that needs a waking night rather than a live-in arrangement and is priced differently.
Tell us and we will help you find someone else, without another introduction fee. Be aware that we are an introductory service rather than an agency: we do not employ the carers and we do not run a rota, so there is no bank of staff to send. In practice most families arranging a longer break line up a second carer they have spoken to, so there is somebody who already knows the situation.
Local figures on this page are read from carers' advertised rates and from the prices agencies and care homes publish themselves. Last checked September 2026.
See carers who could cover you in Medway, with their rates, experience and reviews, and talk to your favourites for free. Nothing is booked until you say so.