Respite careTower Hamlets
If you look after someone and need a break, you can book a carer to cover you for a week, a fortnight or a single weekend. A fortnight of live-in cover in Tower Hamlets is around £2,072, and you deal with the carer directly rather than through an agency. This page sets out what cover costs near you, who is available, and how it compares with a short stay in a care home.
1,035 carers within about 45 minutes of Tower Hamlets, bookable for as long or as short as you need
A week of cover in Tower Hamlets
That is £424 a week less, because you pay the carer rather than an agency and their margin. The full comparison is below.

LeamouthCarers in Leamouth
WappingCarers in WappingThe money
Every row is the same thing: one week of somebody there day and night while you are away. Ours comes from what live-in carers within reach of Tower Hamlets advertise. The rest comes from what local agencies and care homes publish about themselves.
A live-in carer from PrimeCarersCheapest
£1,036a week
one carer in the house, day and night
A live-in carer through a local agency
£1,460a week
what 95 nearby agencies advertise
A care home bed nearby
£1,500a week
the median of 31 homes that publish a fee
Booking the carer yourself saves about £424 a week against the cheapest alternative in Tower Hamlets, or £848 over a fortnight. The difference is not a discount on the carer. It is the agency margin you are no longer paying, and the carer is generally paid more, not less.
Not every break is a fortnight away. If you are staying local and just need to sleep, see friends or get to your own appointments, visiting care is the cheaper shape: 14 hours a week at £19 an hour is £266 a week. The 93 local agencies that publish an hourly rate average £25, which would be £350 for the same hours.
This is deliberately not in the table above. A few hours a day and a carer living in the house are different things, and putting them on one list would make the cheaper one look like the same purchase.
The care home figure is the median weekly fee at 31 homes within about 30 kilometres that publish one, out of 1,544 in the area. Most homes do not publish a fee at all, and a short respite stay is often quoted above a home's standard weekly rate, so treat it as a floor rather than a quote.
What it adds up to as the break gets longer
What else is near you
We keep a directory of home care agencies and care homes, including the prices they publish. None of them pay us to be listed and we earn nothing if you choose one.
331 of the 2,646 agencies we track near you say they offer respite. If you would rather go through an agency than book a carer directly, there is a reasonable choice.
2,646
agencies covering the area
331
say they offer respite
423
offer live-in cover
74
say they take council funding
93 of them publish an hourly rate at all. The middle of those charges £25 an hour, with the range running £22 to £28. An agency employs and rotas its carers, which is the right answer for some families and is what the extra pays for.
73 of them advertise waking nights, which matters if the person you look after is up in the night and the reason you need a break is that you are not sleeping.
Most homes will not quote until you ring. These publish a starting price on their own website, which we read on the date shown. They are almost always “from” prices for the cheapest room, so expect to pay more.
| Home | CQC rating | Respite from | Read on |
|---|---|---|---|
| Heatherwood Care CentrePurley | Good | £1,600a week | August 2026 |
| Frank Foster HouseTheydon Bois | Requires improvement | £1,650a week | August 2026 |
| Willow Lodge Nursing HomeSutton | Good | £1,800a week | August 2026 |
| The Pines Nursing HomeLondon | Good | £2,060a week | August 2026 |
| Stella & Harry Freedman HouseLondon | Good | £2,247a week | August 2026 |
Ratings are the home's latest published CQC judgement. We are not affiliated with any of them and earn nothing if you choose one.
The decision
On price, staying put wins in Tower Hamlets, and by enough that it is usually the end of the argument. But price is not the only reason families choose it.
A couple pays once. Around nine in ten carers on PrimeCarers will look after two people, so one live-in carer covers a husband and wife at one price. A care home charges for two beds. Where both of them would otherwise move, care at home is close to half the cost.
Nothing has to move. A fortnight away means packing, settling into an unfamiliar building and coming home again. For someone with dementia the disruption is the risk, not the fee, and families often tell us the person who came back was not quite the person who went.
You can start smaller than you think. Respite does not have to be a fortnight. A weekend, or a few hours twice a week so you can sleep or see friends, is often what stops things reaching breaking point.
A care home is the better answer for some breaks, particularly when someone needs several staff to move them safely or nursing through the night. Care at home or a care home puts the two side by side, and respite at home or in a care home covers this choice on its own.
Who is available
1,035 carers are based within about 45 minutes of Tower Hamlets. You can see their rates and experience, and message them, before committing to anything.
1,035 private carers are based within about 45 minutes of Tower Hamlets
Filter by what they charge, who drives, who does nights, and who speaks your language, then message the ones you like. Free, and nothing is booked until you say so.
See private carers for Tower HamletsIn their words
“Gomes was fantastic looking after my Uncle with learning disabilities. He helped calm him and cook some great meals.”
Ollie R., 2023
About Gomes J.Live-in carer based in London · 4 reviews“From her first visit she made such a significant difference to my Dad's life, her attention to detail and personal approach made him feel like a new person.”
Folake M., 2020
About Bola A.Live-in carer based in London · 6 reviews“You don't just provide care; you create a warm, supportive environment where he feels safe, respected, and truly understood.”
Fagr A., 2025
About Faith A.Live-in carer based in London“Nicola is BRILLIANT. Everything is going like clockwork since she started as a carer for me.”
Margaret B., 2021
About Nicola R.Live-in carer based in LondonHow it works
Across the county
From the profiles of the carers based within about 45 minutes of Tower Hamlets
For a block of cover a carer's home town matters less than usual: a live-in carer moves in for the period, so the drive only happens twice.
Carers travel, so the next county’s carers are yours too
Each town page shows the carers who list it as home, and the rates they advertise.
Read next
This page is about what a break costs and who is free. These answer the rest.
Or read the respite care guide from the start, and what respite care covers if you are still working out what you need in Tower Hamlets.
Questions
For a live-in carer who stays in the house, a week is typically £1,036 in Tower Hamlets, so a fortnight is about £2,072. For daily visits instead, carers here advertise around £19 an hour, so two hours a day comes to roughly £266 a week. A local agency charges about £25 an hour for the same visits, because you are paying the agency as well as the carer. Nothing is charged until you book, and there is no ongoing contract.
Usually, yes. A care home bed in Tower Hamlets is around £1,500 a week, the median of 31 homes nearby that publish a fee. A live-in carer at home is typically £1,036. Two things usually decide it rather than the headline figure. A care home charges per person, so a couple pays twice while one live-in carer covers both. And a respite stay means packing, moving and settling somebody into an unfamiliar building for a fortnight, then moving them home again, which is the part families tell us they regret.
Less than most people expect. You are talking to self-employed carers directly, so it depends on who happens to be free rather than on an agency's rota. Some carers can start within a few days. That said, school holidays and Christmas go first, so if your break is already in the diary it is worth lining someone up now. You can message carers and agree dates before committing to anything.
Possibly. If you look after someone regularly you are entitled to a carer's assessment from your council, which is separate from any assessment of the person you care for, and it can lead to funding for a break. It is worth asking even if the person you look after pays for their own care, because the assessment is about your needs, not theirs. How to fund respite care goes through the options.
Whatever you normally do, agreed in advance and written down before you go. That usually covers personal care, medication prompts, meals, keeping the house going and company, plus anything specific like a hoist or a night routine. A live-in carer sleeps in the house and is there overnight. If the person you look after is up several times a night, say so early, because that needs a waking night rather than a live-in arrangement and is priced differently.
Tell us and we will help you find someone else, without another introduction fee. Be aware that we are an introductory service rather than an agency: we do not employ the carers and we do not run a rota, so there is no bank of staff to send. In practice most families arranging a longer break line up a second carer they have spoken to, so there is somebody who already knows the situation.
Local figures on this page are read from carers' advertised rates and from the prices agencies and care homes publish themselves. Last checked September 2026.
See carers who could cover you in Tower Hamlets, with their rates, experience and reviews, and talk to your favourites for free. Nothing is booked until you say so.