Days out with a carer

Days out for older people, with help for the day

Checked places to visit in every county, with the toilets, parking and step-free routes confirmed. And if your parent needs a hand, a self-employed carer can come for the day, at one price agreed before you book.

A carer for the day

Tell us about the day and what you would like them to do, and we will set your account up as you go.

Prefer to talk it through? Call 0203 369 3624

Durlston Country Park, Swanage

Durlston Country Park, Dorset

Photo: JimChampion, CC BY-SA 3.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Chelsea Physic Garden, Chelsea

Chelsea Physic Garden, Kensington and Chelsea

Photo: Christine Matthews, CC BY-SA 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Brodsworth Hall and Gardens, Doncaster

Brodsworth Hall and Gardens, South Yorkshire

Photo: Christopher Down, CC BY 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Find your county

Days out near you, county by county

Choose the county your parent lives in, or the one you are visiting, to go straight to its list of checked places. Every county is listed below by region, with the number of places beside it.

Each companionship care county page has a guide to places to visit, written for somebody taking an older parent out for the day. Between them they hold 1,530 places across 191 counties in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland. A place was listed only if it sits inside the county, its own website names it, and every access fact shown for it is stated on the place's own access page or in its AccessAble guide. Where a place says nothing about a facility, the county page says it is unknown rather than guessing.

You will go to the checked places in that county, with what each place confirms about access, how long to allow and whether it is free.

London

32 counties, 264 checked places

South East

14 counties, 127 checked places

South West

15 counties, 127 checked places

East of England

10 counties, 82 checked places

East Midlands

9 counties, 73 checked places

West Midlands

8 counties, 71 checked places

Yorkshire and the Humber

8 counties, 69 checked places

North West

8 counties, 60 checked places

North East

8 counties, 64 checked places

Wales

21 counties, 173 checked places

Scotland

32 counties, 245 checked places

Northern Ireland

26 counties, 175 checked places

The number beside each county is how many places on its page passed our checks. Counties are the ones our county pages use, which in places follow older county names.

Some counties have only a handful of places, because a place that did not pass the checks was left out rather than listed on trust. If your parent lives near a county border, look at the neighbouring county too.

A carer for the day

What a carer does on a day out

A carer can take your parent out on their own, or come along with the family. You book one day, and nothing carries on afterwards unless you want it to.

The journey

Collecting your parent from home, helping them in and out of the car or onto the train, and planning the toilet stops on the way.

Getting about

Pushing the wheelchair, finding the step-free way in, and walking at your parent's pace with an arm to lean on.

Toilets and personal care

Going with your parent to the toilet and helping them there if they need it, so a long day is still possible.

Medicines, food and drink

Reminders for anything due during the day, and making sure your parent eats and drinks enough while they are out.

Knowing when to stop

Watching how tired your parent is getting, planning the rests, and heading home while there is still energy for the journey.

Help for the whole family

Coming along with the family, so somebody is with your parent while you park, queue or look after the children.

If your parent already has a companion who visits, ask them first: a familiar face makes a day out easier, and much of what a companion does at home carries over to an outing. If neither of you drives, look for a carer who drives and has use of a car. Not every carer does, and a carer's profile says whether they do.

How it works

From the first question to the day itself

  1. Tell us about the day

    The date, the part of the day, what help your parent needs and where you are going. It takes about two minutes.

  2. Hear from carers who can go

    Create your free account and the day goes to carers who can get there. Read their profiles and reviews, and message the ones you like.

  3. One price for the day

    You know the price for the whole day before anything is booked. Asking costs nothing and you are under no obligation.

  4. Agree the plan, then go

    Pick-up time, where you are going, the rests, and who pays for tickets and lunch. Write it down and enjoy the day.

What it costs

One price for the whole day

Every day out is different: a morning at a garden ten minutes from home is not the same as a full day at the coast with a long drive each way. So tell us the date, where you are going and what help your parent needs, and you will know the price for the whole day before anything is booked. Asking is free, and you are under no obligation.

Tickets, parking and meals on the day are separate. Agree before the day who pays for what. Anything the carer pays for your parent is refunded at cost against receipts, and mileage is only payable if you have agreed it with the carer in advance and in writing.

If you want regular help after the day out, ongoing visits are booked differently: the companionship care page explains how that works and what carers charge.

Places by type

The best-equipped places to start with

If you are not sure what kind of day your parent would enjoy, start with the type rather than the place. These are the places in each group that confirm the most access facts, no two from the same part of the country.

Chelsea Physic Garden, Chelsea

Photo: Christine Matthews, CC BY-SA 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Gardens

113 checked across the UK

Paths, benches and somewhere for tea. A garden can be walked in short loops with a sit-down between each one.

  • Chelsea Physic Garden

    Chelsea, Kensington and Chelsea · allow an hour or two

    The garden is on one level with flat shingle paths, wheelchairs can be borrowed and there are wheelchair-accessible toilets in the main building and the café.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • The Alnwick Garden

    Alnwick, Northumberland · allow half a day

    The garden has smooth solid surfaces and wheelchair accessible routes, free wheelchairs and hire scooters can be booked, there is an accessible car park by the Treehouse, and a carer goes in free.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • The Bishop's Palace

    Wells, Somerset · allow half a day

    Paths are wide and level throughout, there is a wheelchair-accessible lift, accessible toilets, a mobility scooter and wheelchair to hire, and three Blue Badge spaces that can be booked 48 hours ahead.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
Durlston Country Park, Swanage

Photo: JimChampion, CC BY-SA 3.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Seafronts and the coast

100 checked across the UK

A flat promenade with a view does a great deal for somebody who grew up near the sea or always went there on holiday.

  • Durlston Country Park

    Swanage, Dorset · allow half a day · free entry

    A short, gently sloping path links the car park to the castle, which has platform lifts, accessible toilets and a café, and all-terrain Tramper buggies can be booked for the park.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Holkham Beach and The Lookout

    Wells next the Sea, Norfolk · allow an hour or two · free entry

    The Lookout has ramped step-free access, level floors inside and an adapted toilet, and there is Blue Badge parking at its own car park.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Café
  • Bridlington South Beach

    Bridlington, East Riding of Yorkshire · allow half a day · free entry

    Ramps lead from the promenade onto the beach, beach wheelchairs can be booked through the Coastal Services Office, and there are RADAR toilets and a Changing Places toilet on the South Promenade.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
Brading Roman Villa, Brading

Photo: Nilfanion derivative work: Pasicles (talk), CC BY-SA 3.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Museums and galleries

386 checked across the UK

Indoors, warm and dry, and good for a day when the weather turns. Check which floors the lift reaches and where the seats are.

  • Brading Roman Villa

    Brading, Isle of Wight · allow an hour or two

    The building is designed for easy access, with level floors, a wheelchair to borrow, three disabled parking spaces, a disabled toilet near the café and free entry for carers.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Glasgow Science Centre

    Pacific Quay, Glasgow · allow half a day

    The entrances are wheelchair accessible, wheelchairs can be borrowed from the ticket desk, fully accessible toilets are on every level and Blue Badge holders park free.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Hartlepool Art Gallery

    Hartlepool, Hartlepool · allow an hour or two · free entry

    There is step-free level access throughout, a free wheelchair on request, an accessible toilet by the café, walk-and-rest stools and three Blue Badge bays opposite.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
Kenwood, Hampstead

Photo: MrsEllacott, CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Stately homes and castles

202 checked across the UK

Many are a mixture: grounds and tea rooms that are easy, and older buildings with stairs. Look at what each one confirms.

  • Kenwood

    Hampstead, Camden · allow half a day · free entry

    The house is step free with a lift to the first floor and indoor wheelchairs to borrow, drop-off is allowed at the front, and there are many benches with backs and armrests around the grounds.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Brodsworth Hall and Gardens

    Doncaster, South Yorkshire · allow half a day

    The whole ground floor is level, the original Victorian lift reaches the family bedrooms, there is ramped access to the tearoom and a golf buggy runs between the car park and the hall.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Dunham Massey

    Altrincham, Manchester · allow half a day

    Blue Badge bays are next to Visitor Reception, powered mobility vehicles and manual wheelchairs can be borrowed, a shuttle runs round part of the site and adapted toilets are in three places.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
RSPB Newport Wetlands, Nash

Photo: Mrjohncummings, CC BY-SA 3.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Parks and nature

421 checked across the UK

Almost all the parks and most of the nature spots in our research are free to enter, and a visit is easy to cut short if the day is not going well.

  • RSPB Newport Wetlands

    Nash, Newport · allow half a day · free entry

    There are 10 Blue Badge spaces, accessible toilets on the ground floor of the visitor centre with step-free access, and three mobility scooters and two wheelchairs to borrow.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Scottish Seabird Centre

    North Berwick, East Lothian · allow an hour or two

    The centre has level access with a lift between its two floors, an accessible toilet, wheelchairs to borrow if you ask ahead and Blue Badge parking beside the building, although the boat trips are not suitable for people with limited mobility.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Crom Estate

    Newtownbutler, Fermanagh · allow half a day

    The visitor centre and tearoom have step-free access, there are adapted toilets and Blue Badge bays, and a manual wheelchair, mobility scooter and tramper can be borrowed for the estate paths.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
Norwich Cathedral, Norwich

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Cathedrals

69 checked across the UK

Quiet, with plenty of seating, and somewhere to sit and listen if a service or a choir practice is on.

  • Norwich Cathedral

    Norwich, Norfolk · allow an hour or two · free entry

    There is good level access through the cathedral, lifts to the café and a wheelchair-accessible toilet, free wheelchair loans to book ahead and a few two-hour Blue Badge spaces in the Close.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Westminster Abbey

    London, Westminster · allow half a day

    Most of the self-guided route is step-free, manual wheelchairs can be borrowed free of charge, there is bench seating throughout the nave and fully accessible toilets in the cloisters.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Bath Abbey

    Bath, Bath and North East Somerset · allow an hour or two

    There is level access at the main entrance and across the ground floor, a wheelchair can be borrowed free of charge, and accessible toilets are available, so it is an easy stop alongside the Roman Baths next door.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
Loch Katrine cruises, Callander

Photo: James Allan, CC BY-SA 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Heritage railways and boat trips

24 checked across the UK

A trip where the journey is the outing and your parent can sit for most of it. Ask about steps onto the carriage or boat.

  • Loch Katrine cruises

    Callander, Stirling · allow half a day

    Disabled visitors park free in bays by the café and toilets, there is a lift to the café, accessible toilets on site and on the steamship, and up to two carers sail free.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Wheelchairs to borrow
    • Café
  • Ravenglass and Eskdale Railway

    Ravenglass, Cumbria · allow half a day

    At Ravenglass the public areas are level with accessible parking outside the booking office and an accessible toilet, carers of passengers with access needs travel free on standard fares, and an all-terrain Tramper scooter can be hired.

    • Step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Café
  • Isle of Wight Steam Railway

    Havenstreet, Isle of Wight · allow half a day

    Every train has a wheelchair-accessible standard compartment that can be booked online, and there is free parking with disabled bays and level access to the booking office at Havenstreet.

    • Partly step-free
    • Accessible toilet
    • Blue Badge parking
    • Café

What suits your parent depends on how far they can walk, how long they can manage before they need to rest, and what they have always liked. Somebody who spent every summer at the seaside may get more from an hour on a flat promenade than a whole day at a stately home. A place with the most facilities is a good first trip, but a smaller place closer to home, with less walking, can be the better day. For somewhere with no entry charge, free days out for older people lists them by region. For a garden with level paths, see accessible gardens to visit with an older parent, and for a wet or cold day, indoor days out for older people.

What to look for

What makes a place easier for an older person

Five things decide whether a place works for somebody who tires easily or uses a stick, a frame or a wheelchair. The county pages show each of them for every place.

504

of 1,530 checked places confirm an accessible toilet

On the place's own access page, in its own words.

395

of 1,530 checked places confirm Blue Badge or accessible parking

Close to the entrance, which matters more than the size of the car park.

207

of 1,530 checked places confirm the visit is step-free

A further group are partly step-free, with some areas out of reach.

248

of 1,530 checked places lend wheelchairs to visitors

Ring ahead to ask whether one can be kept for you.

PrimeCarers research into places to visit, each fact kept only where the place's own access page or its AccessAble guide states it, 2026.

Step-free routes

Ramps, lifts or level paths from the car park to the main parts of the visit. Partly step-free means some areas are out of reach, such as upper rooms or a woodland walk, so ask which before you go.

An accessible toilet

The one to check first. Knowing where it is takes away a worry that can stop an older person going out at all. If your parent needs a hoist and a changing bench, look for a Changing Places toilet.

Parking near the entrance

Blue Badge bays close to the door matter more than the size of the car park. A long walk across gravel can use up the energy your parent needed for the visit.

Wheelchairs to borrow

Somebody who walks indoors may manage a garden or a big house far better in a borrowed wheelchair. Places may have only a few, so ring ahead and ask for one to be kept.

Somewhere to sit and eat

A café, benches along the way, and a sheltered seat to rest on. If your parent can only walk a short way, plan the rests in rather than hoping to find them.

If the access page is unclear

Ring and ask three things: how far it is from the Blue Badge bays to the entrance, where the nearest accessible toilet to the café is, and which parts have steps.

The figures count the places that state each facility in their own access information. A place that does not mention a facility may still have it, so treat a gap as a reason to ring, not a reason to cross the place off. The Changing Places map shows where the toilets with a hoist and a changing bench are.

Planning the day

Planning the day around toilets, parking and rest

A lot of what makes a day out go well is decided the day before. Check the practical side, then leave the day itself free to go at your parent's pace.

The place

  • Read its access page

    Each county page links to it. Look for the toilets, the parking and any steps.

  • Check the opening times and booking

    Some houses and gardens close for part of the week or the winter, and some ask you to book a time slot.

  • Ask whether a carer goes in free

    Some places let an essential companion in free or at a lower price. Ask what proof they want to see.

  • Pick a quiet time

    A weekday morning outside the school holidays is usually calmer than a sunny Saturday afternoon.

The journey

  • Keep the first trip close to home

    A long drive there and back can take more out of somebody than the visit itself.

  • Plan a toilet stop if the drive is over an hour

    A service station or a supermarket with an accessible toilet is easier than a lay-by.

  • Take the Blue Badge and the parking clock

    The badge belongs to your parent and can be shown in any car they travel in, including a carer's.

What to take

  • Medicines for the whole day

    And a list of what your parent takes, in a bag that stays with whoever is with them.

  • A change of clothes, pads if used, and wipes

    Packing them means a small accident does not have to end the day.

  • Water, a snack and a light layer

    Offer drinks through the day rather than waiting to be asked.

On the day

  • Agree a time to head home before you arrive

    Leaving while your parent still has energy for the journey back is better than leaving when they are worn out.

  • Sit down every half hour or so

    Write the cafés and benches into the plan.

  • Tell somebody at home where you are going

    Especially if a carer is taking your parent and you are not going yourself.

In hot weather, take extra care. The NHS lists people aged 65 and over among those most at risk in a heatwave, and advises keeping to the shade between 11am and 3pm and having cold food and regular cold drinks. On a hot day, choose somewhere indoors or with plenty of shade. The NHS heatwave advice has the full list.

Getting there

Getting there by car, train or bus

The journey is part of the day and can be the hardest part. These schemes make each way of travelling easier, so check which ones your parent can use before you choose where to go.

A Blue Badge

For parking close to the entrance. Your parent may qualify if they have severe difficulty walking, or find it very hard to plan or follow a journey because of a condition such as dementia. You can apply on their behalf through the council.

Passenger Assist

Station staff help your parent through the station and onto the train, with a ramp if needed, and meet them at the other end. Book it through National Rail as early as you can.

Railcards

There is a railcard for disabled people and a separate one for older people. Look at both to see which your parent qualifies for and which saves more.

The older person's bus pass

Free local bus travel from State Pension age in England, and from 60 in Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland. You apply through the council or the local transport body.

The Sunflower lanyard

A sunflower lanyard or badge tells staff at stations, shops and attractions that the wearer has a disability that may not be visible, and may need help, time or patience.

The gov.uk Blue Badge page explains who can apply and what it costs in each nation, and in Northern Ireland you apply through nidirect. Councils usually decide within 12 weeks, so apply well before the summer. The badge can be shown in any vehicle your parent travels in, as long as they are in it or being dropped off or collected. Train help is booked through Passenger Assist, and the railcard for disabled people is the Disabled Persons Railcard. The gov.uk bus pass page takes you to your own council's application, and the Hidden Disabilities Sunflower site explains where the lanyard is recognised.

Dementia and tiredness

If your parent has dementia or tires quickly

A day out can still go well for somebody living with dementia or a long-term condition. Keep the plan short, choose somewhere familiar or quiet, and make sure there is an easy way to come home early.

What tends to help

  • Going at the time of day your parent is usually at their best, such as late morning
  • Somewhere they know, or somewhere small and quiet
  • An hour or two the first time
  • Telling them the plan simply, on the day, if waiting makes them anxious
  • A quiet corner of the café, away from the till and the door
  • A card with your name and number in their pocket

What tends to make it harder

  • A long drive followed by a long day
  • School holidays, bank holidays and sunny weekends at popular places
  • Big indoor spaces with loud music or announcements
  • A timetable with no room to stop and rest
  • Pressing on when they are tired because you have paid to get in
  • Leaving the toilet until they ask for it

Familiar places tend to work better than new ones for somebody with dementia: a seafront they walked along for years, a park they took their children to, a cathedral they used to visit. Somewhere new, busy and loud can be overwhelming, and some people become more confused later in the day or when they are tired. The guide to activities for people with dementia has ideas for outings and for days at home.

If your parent is frail, unsteady or recently out of hospital, start smaller still: a drive to a favourite view and a cup of tea in the car is a day out. The companionship care activities guide explains how to choose an outing that suits how your parent is feeling that day, and when to stay home instead.

How carers are checked

The checks behind every carer

PrimeCarers is an introductory service. It is not a care agency, does not employ carers and does not provide care. Every carer is self-employed and agrees the details of the trip directly with your family.

Before a carer's profile appears on the site, four checks have been completed: their identity, their right to work in the UK, an enhanced DBS check (PVG in Scotland, Access NI in Northern Ireland) issued within the last 2 years, and an online interview.

We do not check qualifications, training or references. The reviews and references on a profile have not been verified by us, so ask the carer about the experience that matters for your relative, and meet them before you go. What we check, and what we don’t.

Identity
Checked before the profile goes live
Right to work
Checked before the profile goes live
Enhanced DBS, PVG or Access NI
Issued within the last 2 years
Online interview
Before they can take a booking

More days out

Guides for planning a day out

Questions families ask

Questions families ask about days out

Somewhere with an accessible toilet, parking near the entrance and places to sit, and ideally somewhere they already know and like. Gardens, seafronts, museums, cathedrals and heritage railways all work well when those three things are in place. Choose your parent's county on this page to see checked places near them, with what each one confirms about access.

Use the county finder near the top of this page. It takes you to the checked places in your parent's county, each showing whether it confirms step-free access, an accessible toilet, Blue Badge parking, wheelchairs to borrow and a café, with a link to the place's own access page so you can check the detail.

Yes. In our research almost all the parks and seafronts are free to enter, and so are most of the nature reserves, cathedrals and galleries and about half the museums. Free days out for older people lists the free places from our research by region, each with its access facts. Parking, food and special exhibitions may still cost money.

Yes. A carer can collect your parent from home, take them out and bring them back. Agree the times, the plan and who pays for tickets and meals beforehand. Not every carer drives, and a carer's profile shows whether they do, so check it if the day depends on a car.

You agree one price for the whole day before anything is booked, so you know the full cost of the carer's time before you go. Tell us the date, where you are going and what help your parent needs. Asking costs nothing. Tickets, parking and meals are separate: agree beforehand who pays for what. Anything the carer pays for your parent is refunded at cost against receipts, and mileage is only payable if you agreed it with the carer in advance and in writing.

Only to use the Blue Badge bays, which are usually the ones closest to the entrance. Your parent can apply through their council if they have severe difficulty walking or a condition that makes journeys very hard. The badge can be shown in any car your parent travels in, but only when they are in it or being dropped off or collected.

It can be, if it is planned around them. A short trip to a familiar, quiet place at their best time of day, with a toilet and a seat close by, is more likely to go well than a long day somewhere busy. Have an easy way to leave early, and do not judge the day by how long it lasted.

Visits booked through PrimeCarers are covered by the carer insurance policy we arrange, within its terms. It covers the carer's public liability for everyday care, and work arranged outside the platform is not covered. Read the policy before you rely on it. If the carer will drive your parent, check with them that their own car insurance covers it.

Where would they love to go?

Tell us the date and where you are going, and hear from carers who could come too. One price for the day, agreed before you book. Free to ask, and no obligation.